Giggly
No moss growing on me
- Joined
- Jun 12, 2008
- Messages
- 9,661
- MBTI Type
- iSFj
- Enneagram
- 2
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/so
physical chemistry, and that he is affectionate and makes me feel very good, and is a caring nice person, he gives me pleasure...
and then he drives me nuts...mentally
there is a lack of depth, we try to communicate, and I told him I want him to know me too. But its all about having fun, and doing things, and checking my status, and making plans, and talking about his interests. He doesn't really seem to wan't to know me.
He wanted to share all his movies and music with me on our first date or two, but then, it continued, to more about him, and his stuff. And he just asked so what do you want to do... Not very deep... Also he said that communication is very important to him, yet he and his ex never communicated they just did stuff and had fun, they didn't talk about things beyond the surface level, and he said with me, its "real and scary" I think he is trying... but ultimately it will be a waste of time and energy to invest on my part... but he keeps calling me, and I have already gone back to see him.
Also its hard for me to be just friends, I cant do that, and be intimate physically at the same time...
TMI
does he sound like an ISFP??? or is it irrelevant at this point?
It's always irrelevant but whatever he is it sounds like you're not happy so you should let him go. You'll find someone else that you're attracted to.