Do INTJ men say I love you to women who are JUST friends? My Intj guy friend and I got in a big fight over something fairly silly which involved another girl he had relations with. He got really upset about the whole thing and how I perceived him based on what I found out. We were emailing back and forth when one of his emails came back saying "I love you and you have always been a good friend in the past....." The weird part is that he italicized the I love you in the email to make sure to emphasize it. He spent the whole email saying he cared what I thought of him. He has never said something like that before and we aren't the type of friends to drop meaningless words. I don't know if I should acknowledge the I love you or not. It puts me in a weird position. Do INTJ men say I love you to close friends or is this something more? We have been friends for years now and there has been some tension on and off, but I thought we were jsut friends.