Hello guys,
This is my first post. I am an INTP Male who is close to a INTJ female right now. We actually just begin talking about a week ago, and i didn't know that she was an INTJ until a couple days ago. I actually went out with her twice during this time. The first time, I arranged a fake dinner with a group of friends (who I know couldn't come), at the end I ask her if she want to do a dinner just with me and she said ok. The second time, I drove her to Ikea (I live in other part of the city, but I just told her that I was around her area) to buy something she needs for her school assignment (She doesn't like to drive, so I took this opportunity to get to be around her).
I actually said to her that I enjoy being around her and she said she is happy to know me more. I feel that things are progress very quick and positive and maybe I can start showing my romantic intent to her. But seeing a lot of opinion about INTJ woman who requires a lot of time to know someone first before progressing to a more intimate relationship, I don't know if this the right thing to do. I don't want to ruin this moment if I become more frontal/aggressive towards her. I also don't know if she views me as a potential romantic partner or just a friend with similar intellectual, I certainly don't want to be friendzoned.
What do you guys think? Is she showing interest to me? or she is it just a friend thing? And whats advice for me to get her in a more romantic relationship?
Thank you in advance!
This is my first post. I am an INTP Male who is close to a INTJ female right now. We actually just begin talking about a week ago, and i didn't know that she was an INTJ until a couple days ago. I actually went out with her twice during this time. The first time, I arranged a fake dinner with a group of friends (who I know couldn't come), at the end I ask her if she want to do a dinner just with me and she said ok. The second time, I drove her to Ikea (I live in other part of the city, but I just told her that I was around her area) to buy something she needs for her school assignment (She doesn't like to drive, so I took this opportunity to get to be around her).
I actually said to her that I enjoy being around her and she said she is happy to know me more. I feel that things are progress very quick and positive and maybe I can start showing my romantic intent to her. But seeing a lot of opinion about INTJ woman who requires a lot of time to know someone first before progressing to a more intimate relationship, I don't know if this the right thing to do. I don't want to ruin this moment if I become more frontal/aggressive towards her. I also don't know if she views me as a potential romantic partner or just a friend with similar intellectual, I certainly don't want to be friendzoned.
What do you guys think? Is she showing interest to me? or she is it just a friend thing? And whats advice for me to get her in a more romantic relationship?
Thank you in advance!