Risen
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Funny because yes she acts very emotionally although she believes that she doesn't have a temper. In fact when I told her and she went all emo I told her she is being emotional.
Oh well - one would think ENTJs are like INTJ's = able to be objective and avoid unnecessary emotion.
Well, just looking at it from the cognitive functions perspective, Fi is father back in the order of functions for an INTJ (inferior) than it is for an ENTJ (tertiary). Thus, ENTJs are more apt to use Fi, while INTJs bring forth Se more often. Both respective tertiary functions are underdeveloped compared to the primary and secondary functions, and the weaker maturity of it is all the more apparent in observable behavior when it is in the form of judgment (Fi). That's my theory.
Now she says she doesn't care but fact she reacts to him the way she does is emotional.
In my experience, this sort of cognitive dissonance is rather typical. And it can be quite annoying. INTJs seem to be very forthright in how they feel and perceive people/situations. ENTJs seem to conceal that information more, perhaps out of concern for how others would perceive them. They may have a problem with something, but they wont tell you, for whatever reasons they're thinking of in their heads.