Hetaira
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- Sep 1, 2015
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- MBTI Type
- INFP
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My best friend and cousin is an INFJ (female), and I dated an INFJ (male) for about 6 months.
Noooo! I would much rather be an INFP than an INFJ. Both of them are quick to complain about their surroundings and how others are not "treating them like they should," tend to have traits of hypochondria, unable to manage money worth a shit, and always seem to have this idealistic view of how things "should be" instead of making lemonade out of lemons.
Life is what is is. Make the best of it or figure out why you have no friends. Although she is my best friend and I love her dearly, she continually compares herself with me and "wishes I have the material things you do...." Well, guess what? I don't go out to eat. Pack my lunch every day, don't go clothes shopping except at a thrift store and learn to not spend money unless it is a NEED and not a WANT~! Not rocket science!
My apologies if I have offended anyone, but I LOVE being an INFP!!!
Noooo! I would much rather be an INFP than an INFJ. Both of them are quick to complain about their surroundings and how others are not "treating them like they should," tend to have traits of hypochondria, unable to manage money worth a shit, and always seem to have this idealistic view of how things "should be" instead of making lemonade out of lemons.
Life is what is is. Make the best of it or figure out why you have no friends. Although she is my best friend and I love her dearly, she continually compares herself with me and "wishes I have the material things you do...." Well, guess what? I don't go out to eat. Pack my lunch every day, don't go clothes shopping except at a thrift store and learn to not spend money unless it is a NEED and not a WANT~! Not rocket science!
My apologies if I have offended anyone, but I LOVE being an INFP!!!