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I can forgive like I'm dispensing Pez candy, but this brand of forgiveness also means doorslamming. So I may seem more forgiving because I'm quick to do/say/offer it (even if not asked for it), but I don't necessarily think this is true forgiveness since nothing is being put into practise. True forgiveness, I imagine, is not accompanied by doorslamming. Also, I forgive to forget. I experience satisfaction when I doorslam. The thrill is related to having learned something because of that person(s). I don't experience regret because everything I've learned has been beneficial. I remember my 'enemies' with fondness. I don't look back or reminisce much, but when I do and I feel that fondness that usually means I am reaping something from the former association.
I wonder if INFPs would be more forgiving in practise. It's not as cut and dried as Fe/Fi or INFJ/INFP, but I do notice my INFP friends are much more open to what might come after their decision to forgive someone. Meanwhile, if I absolutely must interact/encounter someone I've doorslammed I'll still let Fe perform its theatrics, but I'm definitely going to be wearing a hazmat suit.
INFPs, in my estimation, are more emotionally resilient, even if they might be more touchy, which is probably related to how they heal themselves. INFJs aren't necessarily about grudges, the word 'grudge' sound way too consistent and committed. INFJ likes to narrow the focus or re-categorise people, so when they have to deal with someone they've already moved over to 'doorslammed', then it's uncomfortable and annoying, and feelings of a grudge may re-surface, which Fe churns into fakeness, which then exhausts the INFJ. It's like, "Oh yeah, them. Ugh. Now I have to go to the attic and bring out my summer hazmat collection."