Tiltyred
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- Dec 1, 2008
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- MBTI Type
- INFP
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- sx/sp
Ha. I wish! Cause then I'd be kewl
Dahling, you are so beautiful that "Kewl" is just superfluous.
Ha. I wish! Cause then I'd be kewl
Oh my goodness, yes. I think that if I ever met myself I would find me insufferable. A male version of me would be even worse
As a non-glutton for punishment I'd avoid this
like an incestuous plague. The challenge of
growth using two similar approaches would be
stultifyingly successful, I think. Plus I need to
be saved from myself, ENxPs for the win
My husband and I are both INFJs. He's an artist and I'm a landscape designer. From the first moment we met, we felt an instant deep connection and mutual understanding of each other. We're both pretty balanced as far as the feeling side and sometimes cross over to test as INTJs, so we don't have a tendency to be overly emotional or "cry all the time," as some people have suggested might happen here.
We both prefer spending time together or with small groups of friends and find socializing with large groups of strangers to be exhausting. We have the best time together either when enjoying the peace and beauty of nature or when engaged in imaginative activity, such as painting or creating sculptures with our 4-year-old, or working on our garden together.
We are probably much less verbal than many of the other personality types, and that can be a little boring at times, but when we put our minds together, we find that we're capable of creating a pretty fantastic inner world that works for us. It takes work, just like any relationship does, but most of the time it seems to flow smoothly.
I think for an INFJ, the feeling of understanding and being understood is pretty valuable. The emotional depths experienced in this relationship are extremely satisfying. We're also very gentle and compassionate with each other and seldom argue, which can be wonderful for two people who detest drama and can be so easily wounded by it.
I should add that we've been together for 8 years total now.
It would be like this: