jenocyde
half mystic, half skeksis
- Joined
- Jan 2, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- ENTP
- Enneagram
- 7w8
Identifying my feelings will never change the fact that I made my decision. It was sad to leave my alcoholic boyfriend, but I would never stay just because it was sad. I make decisions on logic, whether it sucks or not. And knowing a little bit about your situation, you have others depending on you - you can't succumb to emotions like other parties. Sometimes, you just have to be the strong one and make practical decisions. You can deal with your feelings from a safe vantage point later, but being in touch with them at that moment won't (or shouldn't) change what needs to happen. Don't beat yourself up for being yourself. Just my 2 cents...
(also Fi is like the 7th function for us ExTPs, it's much easier and more natural to call on 3rd function Fe for help...)
(also Fi is like the 7th function for us ExTPs, it's much easier and more natural to call on 3rd function Fe for help...)