ESTJs man they can get things done like no other.
My dad is one.
He is smart, he is clever, has a excellent job, well read, get shit done, never get fooled (except by me) but I would never ever ever want to be an ESTJ.
Why would I never want to be an ESTJ?
Cus with all those good qualities ESTJs have every quality in him that drives people insane.
Short fuse, Drama queen, control freak, annoying, stubborn, has the last word, never listens to others, I am always right etc.
I guess they have just like everyone else equally good and bad qualities, but i would never ever trade my ENTP penis for any other type, let alone an ESTJ one.
Ps -
ESTJs are excellent guardians / parents. My dad is the best Ex.
But mind you if you have hurt feelings they'll never ever understand you.
I think ESTJs are the LEAST empathic type. and that sucks.
Yeah, if it weren't for one ESTJ guy I dated, I probably would agree 100%. Turns out, ESTJs can be a little more flexible and sensitive/caring (NOTE: Keep in mind, I'm basing this off of how relatively more caring he was than my previous long-term relationship with an INTP
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) than I originally believed. -Everyone- liked him upon meeting him. He was just a really friendly, outgoing, likeable guy. And when I say outgoing, I'm not talking about attention-whoring like some other E's can be. He doesn't even really try to dominate conversations like most ETs I know, and tries to relate to everyone (ALMOST Fe). When he's "relaxing" and being social, he almost appears P-like. It's only on his own time or work-related time that he's 110% J. Then again, this could be just him, and not all ESTJs.
But other than that...
Short fuse: Check (Except when it came to me. Probably because he was afraid of scaring me off.)
Drama queen: Check (He can be pouty and complain a lot)
control freak: Check (His apartment is emaculate. When my cat was staying there, I thought he was going to burst a vein in his forhead when he found out she was nibbling at his plants
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)
annoying: Check (In regards to a few of our differences)
stubborn, has the last word, never listens to others, I am always right etc: Check, check, check, and check.