Edit: she' INTP
So - I found some that I had a lot of similar interests with - they have web thing - so it's very one with comments and while she put her self out there, they have intently made there corner of the web not nearly popular as it could be and she doesn't post often - now I'm not 100% she's INTJ but I've been following for awhile so probably close.
So I been thinking about how best to approach her for awhile - as I'm learning a very INTJ trait - and I realized the only real was for me was message her via twitter, there was hint they were bit sad, bit down, nothing major, so the next day I send a msg that went like this, and I added a cheeky poll - this was meant to sure confidence, bold, and rather bluntly my intent - now this was big for me to do - I've only really put my self out there 2 times in... 7 years? so pretty big thing but I knew I had to make a move.
Seams you were bit down how about we play a game together
- yeah, sure
- yeah cheer me up
- yeah, only because your hot
So that's pretty much how it was, I got no reply 24hr - I followed up with a more or less "ok you don't know me" - and then post a life story of similar interest and followed by some music that is something I think she'd like but not heard - the last message was more or less "sorry for spamming 10 msgs, if I'm making you uncomfortable I'll go away"
no reply - all hope is lost right? maybe not? So she posts ask if anyone can guess her MBTI - I google, I do a test and get INTJ - it also fits her - I google some more I come here and found this thread http://www.typologycentral.com/foru...entj-intj-/19545-intj-intj-relationships.html and reading throw that just - some many things about myself made clear, and about how I probably went to fast.
So did I fail? Did she flirt? or did I read into that way to much...
Don't worry it gets worse - but first I before I read that thread I replied with 'I'm INTJ - so probably the same' to her question - so do a few others - there all over the place but quite a few INTJ, and some 'I & T for sure'
So... after that I end up in a chat room and she's there - she doesn't know I am - then I post a comment on current whatever topic, exposing myself - I don't refer to her at all - she doesn't to me - I don't know wtf to do - nothing happens - she fades off at some time and then so do I -
Possible she didn't read anything I sent - but I think it's highly unlikely.
I really get the feeling that we are very similar in quite a few ways - they might even end here - if so we both have the same first initial - and if you read this - I'm mad about you, you won't disappoint me.
'you won't disappoint me' - I say that because that's a big INTJ thing - feelings not shared, not measuring up? - I know enough that I'd marry her without second thought >_> maybe I'm not INTJ, maybe just really stupid >_>
Also I hate typing I'm not good at but like putting myself out there - even if I did fuck it up - already learnt a lot reading on here, how to manage myself better. ty all.
Edit; editing my typos and spelling and so it makes sense >_<
So - I found some that I had a lot of similar interests with - they have web thing - so it's very one with comments and while she put her self out there, they have intently made there corner of the web not nearly popular as it could be and she doesn't post often - now I'm not 100% she's INTJ but I've been following for awhile so probably close.
So I been thinking about how best to approach her for awhile - as I'm learning a very INTJ trait - and I realized the only real was for me was message her via twitter, there was hint they were bit sad, bit down, nothing major, so the next day I send a msg that went like this, and I added a cheeky poll - this was meant to sure confidence, bold, and rather bluntly my intent - now this was big for me to do - I've only really put my self out there 2 times in... 7 years? so pretty big thing but I knew I had to make a move.
Seams you were bit down how about we play a game together
- yeah, sure
- yeah cheer me up
- yeah, only because your hot
So that's pretty much how it was, I got no reply 24hr - I followed up with a more or less "ok you don't know me" - and then post a life story of similar interest and followed by some music that is something I think she'd like but not heard - the last message was more or less "sorry for spamming 10 msgs, if I'm making you uncomfortable I'll go away"
no reply - all hope is lost right? maybe not? So she posts ask if anyone can guess her MBTI - I google, I do a test and get INTJ - it also fits her - I google some more I come here and found this thread http://www.typologycentral.com/foru...entj-intj-/19545-intj-intj-relationships.html and reading throw that just - some many things about myself made clear, and about how I probably went to fast.
So did I fail? Did she flirt? or did I read into that way to much...
Don't worry it gets worse - but first I before I read that thread I replied with 'I'm INTJ - so probably the same' to her question - so do a few others - there all over the place but quite a few INTJ, and some 'I & T for sure'
So... after that I end up in a chat room and she's there - she doesn't know I am - then I post a comment on current whatever topic, exposing myself - I don't refer to her at all - she doesn't to me - I don't know wtf to do - nothing happens - she fades off at some time and then so do I -
Possible she didn't read anything I sent - but I think it's highly unlikely.
I really get the feeling that we are very similar in quite a few ways - they might even end here - if so we both have the same first initial - and if you read this - I'm mad about you, you won't disappoint me.
'you won't disappoint me' - I say that because that's a big INTJ thing - feelings not shared, not measuring up? - I know enough that I'd marry her without second thought >_> maybe I'm not INTJ, maybe just really stupid >_>
Also I hate typing I'm not good at but like putting myself out there - even if I did fuck it up - already learnt a lot reading on here, how to manage myself better. ty all.
Edit; editing my typos and spelling and so it makes sense >_<