kath
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Hello everyone!
I'm completely lost about my mbti type. I've taken a lot of quizzes but I feel like every type could match my personality...
I'm going to answer some questions that I've just selected on the questionnaire compilation thread.
(I am 17 btw)
What do you like/dislike most about people?
I hate when they complain about everything, when they are pessimistic in all aspects of their lives. The fact that they can't be hopeful for a second and that they never do anything to improve their situation makes me feel angry. I don't really like passivity.
I hate it when people do everything to belittle others to prove they are the best. I totally agree that we have to be confident, but belittle others is so weak to me.
I also do not like people who are not open-minded, -cruel people and those who criticize anything that does not fit in with their standards.
What do you like most about the favorite people in your life?
I like the fact that they fight for what they believe in and that they never give up on something they are passionate about. I like their imagination, bravery and humor.
I also like the discussions with them. It's always so ressourceful because it's always deep conversations.
What do you like/dislike most about yourself?
I hate the fact that I worry about everything, especially about people close to me. Sometimes I even get paranoid and I know it's not good.
Sometimes I don't say exactly what I think so it doesn't hurt other's feelings (however, I only do this with people I like, if they are unknown, I don't hesitate to give my opinion .)¨
I also feel that I'm boring when I am uncomfortable with someone.
Unconsciously, I always compare myself to others, which lowers my confidence in me. And I would like to stop that. I hate being too hard on myself, because I'm aware of it and it's bad.
What do you spend the most time thinking about?
I usually think about my future, because my worst fear is regrets. I want to do everything I want in my life and if I don't, I think it would be the greatest disapointement of my life.
I also think about my personality. I am obsessed with the desire to know myself perfectly and that my feelings or reactions make sense.
Finally, I also think about human rights and about them being respected.
What's the most recent cool thing you've learned?
That too much fluoride is bad for your health
When you are romantically interested in an individual, how do you generally act (shy, outgoing, annoying, etc.)?
Well, if I have a little crush on someone it's usually someone I completely don't know. And yes, I'm really really shy when it comes to that. But I have to say that I don't have a lot of crushes because I feel like I need to wait to have the "perfect" person. I don't want to do things in a hurry. It will come one day.
Name a city that best represents your personality.
London, because I really like history and imagining what happened before always makes me feel passionate. But on the other hand, it's a big city so there are so much things to do. You never get bored and you get to know other people which is amazing.
How do you present yourself to the world, at work, in conversation (perhaps in your choice of clothing or word choice)?
I try to look my best. I dress the best I can sometimes it's just for myself, because I want to wear what pleases me, but sometimes I have to confess that it's to look good for people.
About my word choices, I try to be diplomatic, but if I'm not ok with someone who tells stupid things, I speak my mind.
What is your idea of the perfect day?
I do not like when my plans are changed, so I would like to start my day as I usually do, calmly. Then either I go out with my loved ones, or I stay inside because I never get bored. I always have something to do to occupy my thoughts.
What changes would you make if you were president/king/emperor/ruler of the world?
Destroy patriarchy
What are your most important values?
Hope, courage, intelligence, determination, family, friends, kindness, dreams accomplished
Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.
Books: Sylvia Plath's Journals because I can relate to some of things she describes (not everything)
Harry Potter because I look up to Hermione
Films: The dead poets society, because the philosophy of this movie means so much to me
What have people seen as your weaknesses?
- They I'm too hard with myself, too perfectionist
- I tend to be bossy with them because I want things to be the way I want them to be, which annoys them.
- Sometimes they say I'm too kind
What have people seen as your strengths?
- They say I'm "the mother" of the friends group, and that I always give good advice and that I always listen to them. Compassionate.
- They say I'm intelligent, always know how to react with someone
- Loyal, inspiring and brave
How do you behave around strangers?
It's funny because if I don't know anybody I can easily speak with them and I make friends quickly.
But if I kind of "know" the person or my idea of the person, I don't speak very much because I'm afraid not to be liked. I am also afraid of being mistaken about the person's personality.
A friend is getting married and they put you in charge of the cake. You narrowed it down to two places to make an order. The first is a bakery with whom you got a good relationship with. The other is a well-known cake maker to whom everyone goes to (your friend hints to it as well). Which one do you choose and why?
I think I would choose the second one. So I'm sure the cake will please him/her.
Are you worried about what may go wrong? Tend to imagine worse case scenarios?
Oh yes
Do you dislike taking big risks unless it's a "sure" thing?
I would naturally be tempted to be 100% sure of it. But I would love to get rid of this and be more audacious but it is complicated because I am rather down-to-earth.
Do you have desires/fantasies of being rewarded in a social or public arena?
Yes actually, I often need recognition
Do you think about your affect on others, groups, organizations, and the world?
Accordind to my friends and family, I'm pretty outspoken about my beliefs, so they say I inspire people. I'm also the leader of a humanitary group.
Which fictional characters do you identify yourself as?
Hermione Granger, Tony (13 reasons why), Molly Weasley, Belle, Padmé Amidala, Clarke Griffin, Mary Stuart (reign)
Do you think there are any differences to how you described yourself and how people actually perceive you? How do you think others would describe you? If there are any discrepancies between these two that are you are aware of; do you know why exactly that is?
Other people say that I'm very rational down-to-earth and that I am an inspiration for them, that I am hopeful and always putting them in the right "road" (sorry English is not my first language but I hope you understand what I mean).
But sometimes I think i'm not that serious. I think I am more imaginative, even more weird and sometimes I get angry about things like injustice,... so I wouldn't say that I am completely calm and relaxed.
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Please describe yourself when you are in an enjoyable situation. How do you act and why? Real life experiences are welcome.
I'm very dynamic and I can sometimes freak people out because I'm too excited. I don't remember why but the other day a friend of mine told me something very very excitable and I was jumping everywhere and I was very happy. It's the same thing when a movie comes out. I am a big fan girl.
Describe your relationship to authority. How do you perceive authority? What does it mean to you, and how do you deal with it?
I have a tendency to respect all the authorities which is kind of different from my views of conformity. My views are mostly anti- conformist, but I think we have to keep order in this society.
Describe your relationship to socialization. How do you perceive one-on-one interaction? How do you perceive group interaction?
I am better in one on one interaction. I prefer to have a few friends. I think it's more intimate and we can share more things. But when I am in a large group for example in my classroom, I am confortable enough to speak to everybody and maybe even speak louder than when I am with few friends. If we have for examples a debate about something, I wouldn't be shy and I would speak my mind entirely. But still a lot of interactions might be tiring for me.
Finally, is there something else you find to be of importance you want to add about yourself you think might be of relevance when helping to type you?
I'm very independent, i like to have a total control on everything, I always had a lot of responsibilities which made me very mature for my age.
(if you need more information, please ask me)
I'm completely lost about my mbti type. I've taken a lot of quizzes but I feel like every type could match my personality...
I'm going to answer some questions that I've just selected on the questionnaire compilation thread.
(I am 17 btw)
What do you like/dislike most about people?
I hate when they complain about everything, when they are pessimistic in all aspects of their lives. The fact that they can't be hopeful for a second and that they never do anything to improve their situation makes me feel angry. I don't really like passivity.
I hate it when people do everything to belittle others to prove they are the best. I totally agree that we have to be confident, but belittle others is so weak to me.
I also do not like people who are not open-minded, -cruel people and those who criticize anything that does not fit in with their standards.
What do you like most about the favorite people in your life?
I like the fact that they fight for what they believe in and that they never give up on something they are passionate about. I like their imagination, bravery and humor.
I also like the discussions with them. It's always so ressourceful because it's always deep conversations.
What do you like/dislike most about yourself?
I hate the fact that I worry about everything, especially about people close to me. Sometimes I even get paranoid and I know it's not good.
Sometimes I don't say exactly what I think so it doesn't hurt other's feelings (however, I only do this with people I like, if they are unknown, I don't hesitate to give my opinion .)¨
I also feel that I'm boring when I am uncomfortable with someone.
Unconsciously, I always compare myself to others, which lowers my confidence in me. And I would like to stop that. I hate being too hard on myself, because I'm aware of it and it's bad.
What do you spend the most time thinking about?
I usually think about my future, because my worst fear is regrets. I want to do everything I want in my life and if I don't, I think it would be the greatest disapointement of my life.
I also think about my personality. I am obsessed with the desire to know myself perfectly and that my feelings or reactions make sense.
Finally, I also think about human rights and about them being respected.
What's the most recent cool thing you've learned?
That too much fluoride is bad for your health
When you are romantically interested in an individual, how do you generally act (shy, outgoing, annoying, etc.)?
Well, if I have a little crush on someone it's usually someone I completely don't know. And yes, I'm really really shy when it comes to that. But I have to say that I don't have a lot of crushes because I feel like I need to wait to have the "perfect" person. I don't want to do things in a hurry. It will come one day.
Name a city that best represents your personality.
London, because I really like history and imagining what happened before always makes me feel passionate. But on the other hand, it's a big city so there are so much things to do. You never get bored and you get to know other people which is amazing.
How do you present yourself to the world, at work, in conversation (perhaps in your choice of clothing or word choice)?
I try to look my best. I dress the best I can sometimes it's just for myself, because I want to wear what pleases me, but sometimes I have to confess that it's to look good for people.
About my word choices, I try to be diplomatic, but if I'm not ok with someone who tells stupid things, I speak my mind.
What is your idea of the perfect day?
I do not like when my plans are changed, so I would like to start my day as I usually do, calmly. Then either I go out with my loved ones, or I stay inside because I never get bored. I always have something to do to occupy my thoughts.
What changes would you make if you were president/king/emperor/ruler of the world?
Destroy patriarchy
What are your most important values?
Hope, courage, intelligence, determination, family, friends, kindness, dreams accomplished
Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.
Books: Sylvia Plath's Journals because I can relate to some of things she describes (not everything)
Harry Potter because I look up to Hermione
Films: The dead poets society, because the philosophy of this movie means so much to me
What have people seen as your weaknesses?
- They I'm too hard with myself, too perfectionist
- I tend to be bossy with them because I want things to be the way I want them to be, which annoys them.
- Sometimes they say I'm too kind
What have people seen as your strengths?
- They say I'm "the mother" of the friends group, and that I always give good advice and that I always listen to them. Compassionate.
- They say I'm intelligent, always know how to react with someone
- Loyal, inspiring and brave
How do you behave around strangers?
It's funny because if I don't know anybody I can easily speak with them and I make friends quickly.
But if I kind of "know" the person or my idea of the person, I don't speak very much because I'm afraid not to be liked. I am also afraid of being mistaken about the person's personality.
A friend is getting married and they put you in charge of the cake. You narrowed it down to two places to make an order. The first is a bakery with whom you got a good relationship with. The other is a well-known cake maker to whom everyone goes to (your friend hints to it as well). Which one do you choose and why?
I think I would choose the second one. So I'm sure the cake will please him/her.
Are you worried about what may go wrong? Tend to imagine worse case scenarios?
Oh yes
Do you dislike taking big risks unless it's a "sure" thing?
I would naturally be tempted to be 100% sure of it. But I would love to get rid of this and be more audacious but it is complicated because I am rather down-to-earth.
Do you have desires/fantasies of being rewarded in a social or public arena?
Yes actually, I often need recognition
Do you think about your affect on others, groups, organizations, and the world?
Accordind to my friends and family, I'm pretty outspoken about my beliefs, so they say I inspire people. I'm also the leader of a humanitary group.
Which fictional characters do you identify yourself as?
Hermione Granger, Tony (13 reasons why), Molly Weasley, Belle, Padmé Amidala, Clarke Griffin, Mary Stuart (reign)
Do you think there are any differences to how you described yourself and how people actually perceive you? How do you think others would describe you? If there are any discrepancies between these two that are you are aware of; do you know why exactly that is?
Other people say that I'm very rational down-to-earth and that I am an inspiration for them, that I am hopeful and always putting them in the right "road" (sorry English is not my first language but I hope you understand what I mean).
But sometimes I think i'm not that serious. I think I am more imaginative, even more weird and sometimes I get angry about things like injustice,... so I wouldn't say that I am completely calm and relaxed.
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Please describe yourself when you are in an enjoyable situation. How do you act and why? Real life experiences are welcome.
I'm very dynamic and I can sometimes freak people out because I'm too excited. I don't remember why but the other day a friend of mine told me something very very excitable and I was jumping everywhere and I was very happy. It's the same thing when a movie comes out. I am a big fan girl.
Describe your relationship to authority. How do you perceive authority? What does it mean to you, and how do you deal with it?
I have a tendency to respect all the authorities which is kind of different from my views of conformity. My views are mostly anti- conformist, but I think we have to keep order in this society.
Describe your relationship to socialization. How do you perceive one-on-one interaction? How do you perceive group interaction?
I am better in one on one interaction. I prefer to have a few friends. I think it's more intimate and we can share more things. But when I am in a large group for example in my classroom, I am confortable enough to speak to everybody and maybe even speak louder than when I am with few friends. If we have for examples a debate about something, I wouldn't be shy and I would speak my mind entirely. But still a lot of interactions might be tiring for me.
Finally, is there something else you find to be of importance you want to add about yourself you think might be of relevance when helping to type you?
I'm very independent, i like to have a total control on everything, I always had a lot of responsibilities which made me very mature for my age.
(if you need more information, please ask me)