ajblaise
Minister of Propagandhi
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Maybe the Aries in me is helping me make the stride.
You believe in astrology too? That's not logical! There goes some more INTP points...hah.
Maybe the Aries in me is helping me make the stride.
You believe in astrology too? That's not logical! There goes some more INTP points...hah.
How do you reconsider your type?
The picture is actually from a professional photographer. It's actually, the only one I like since I'm so hard on myself. Hiring a good photographer is of major importance to an INTP in my opinion.
I like to look at it as realizing that life works in funny ways. Example. You meet someone 5 years ago. You have a relationship. It grows. It slows down. Another person comes into your life 3 years ago. It grows, number 1 wants back in, she comes back in while number 2 is acting dumb and out in the "free" world playing hard to get. Number 2 returns while number 1 is acting dumb and playing mad because you let number 2 into your life in the first place and pissed when you remark that you care about her and will not put up with hearing her speak about her in a derogatory manner.
Maybe a year or so down the line, number 3 magically appears, the moons shifts, number 1 begins to watch things develop from the sidelines all the while acting like she doesn't know about a thing when in fact she is spying on me and invading my privacy rights to have visitors come to my home. Number 2 comes and goes because she wants me to come looking for her and sporadically pops up on the radar to let me know she is around and wants to see me, go shopping or watch a movie.
This is just normal stuff. What is my way of life? A cool nerd who hangs out at his house building websites, going to the gym, riding his bike and watching movies with girls? Why do I need to act like a public service agency and "inform" people of my personal life when they are not around?
What exactly is not ok? Dating?
Personally, if I was one of those women, I'd wanna know what it is you want. A serious relationship? Fuckbuddies? Open relationship?
Where the fuck does an INTP get the energy to "juggle" women?
Well actually... I guess you COULD savor all your social energy and channel it into 2-3 women but seriously... what a fucking waste... you must be a zombie around your family, friends and work etc
Or at least the introversion can't be especially strong. I agree with the people noting social exhaustion. Juggling romantic interests that result in emotional blow-ups doesn't sound appealing to the person who especially enjoys being alone with their thoughts. Hopefully the women are juggling as well.you might want to reconsider your type.
Amusing.It would be more socially innovative if you were actually juggling the women.
In my experience, more often than not, it's been zero.
But, when I've had the opportunity to try my hand, I generally don't stray or have much interest in doing so. Even unrequited crushes are strangely monogamous. It'll gradually fade, then I can develop a new object of affection.
Mine is the kind of guy who could give Horton a run for his money in the faithfulness department. Which is very good for his life expectancy.
Amusing.
The intps I've known are usually very introverted and don't have the energy to waste on multiple women when they could be learning something. Juggling multiple women seems like a more extraverted behavior, honestly.
I think this is accurate for some intps from what I've read and seen. There will obviously be variation.Could be a generalization, but I believe that INTP's are knowledge seekers more than anything. To rid that life purpose of theirs is to remove "women" in some.
Duh? We each do what is best for ourselves. *shrug*Spending time alone, concentrated on thought, learning (having zits) =/= unsatisfactory for the INTP. It is an acceptable behavior, and if you don't agree, you can fuck off. The norm doesn't objectify what is proper.
No disagreement here.(of course, a decent amount of socializing is needed here and there. But even those extroverted acts are ultimately for the benefit of Ti and Ne. Share ideas with others through Fe and learn through communication.) Happiness is being what you are.
Ofcourse.As to anyone's type, if well-informed, can only be the true judge of his/her character.
On average: four.
Of course I believe in Astrology!! What do you think got me this far to begin withYou believe in astrology too? That's not logical! There goes some more INTP points...hah.
For theory purposes, let's assume that an INTP is seeking knowledge on women. He begins to understand life after a divorce, losing a child, near death experiences, economic cycles and world events. Well, this knowledge seeking is still there but it creates a thread on human emotions. The human emotion thread (thought thread) is not really something he consciously decided to do but rather part of a situation that developed and he rationalized as a fruit of all the confusion that initially arose. Believe me, I've been confused at times and have so far been able to get on my feet by resorting to my logic, my verbal proficiency to communicate my feelings and proactively, from then on, continue with whatever outcome. Let's not forget that I do believe in spiritual things as well. I believe location, meeting a person and a particular spot, a particular time when a minutes difference or change of situation could have prevented that encounter from happening in the first place. When you live life in "the zone" per se, I like to see myself as a wonderfully lucking bystander enjoying life who is seeking knowledge, piling up mountains of love and releasing it all back to the world that brought it to begin with.Could be a generalization, but I believe that INTP's are knowledge seekers more than anything. To rid that life purpose of theirs is to remove "women" in some.