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Yeah. That would get my attention.
In a hunter-prey sort of way? (Yum ,what a tasty morsal...)
Yeah. That would get my attention.
uhhh, yeah...so, again, Blackcat, any advice you get from a male ENTJ should be taken with a grain of salt. Bust out the french maid outfit with one of your lady friends and I'm pretty sure you'll find yourself getting a firm "no thanks" at the very least. You might want to reread the post on ENTJ sex for further clarification of why this is probably a bad suggestion. Male ENTJs are clearly a different sort of animal in many ways.
Sorry I am so late to this discussion, but I felt like I needed to weigh in.
Pursuing us is pretty damn easy - just be smart, independent and ambitious, and at the same time, have some introspective ideas, and then bam! That's it. Altruism and compassion would also be hot. I think this works for both women and men who are ENTJs.
Most importantly, be honest and don't say anything stupid. One time, I was have this coffee with a woman as a first date, and she started making a joke about homeless people, calling them "bums." I gave her a pass.
But then she started making comments about the "lack of cheerleaders" at the Olympics, and right then and there, I ended the date.
So, yeah - don't say anything inane.
Above all: don't appear needy! Oh, and never say, "I don't know" to a "What do you think of ..." question.
Lastly, as the relationship progresses, learn to be sexually adventurous! Include roleplay!
That is all!
G'luck!
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As an ENTJ female I would like to be pursued in a manner that doesn't threaten my independence nor will I tolerate any game-playing. I don't like when men pursue me in a predator-like style, though I notice that I tend to pursue them that way. I like men who are quietly confident, straightforward, and are driven and manifested by secret passions. Most of the men I find most attractive are the confident, eccentric loner types that inherently exude a sort of unmistakeable individuality that sets them apart from the crowd.
I like men who are quietly confident, straightforward, and are driven and manifested by secret passions.
Oh, and never say, "I don't know" to a "What do you think of ..." question.
I'd take an "I don't know" response as a chance to explore the subject further.
You don't pursue them. They pursue you.