I'm actually an INTP myself and I'm looking for advice on my INTP guy friend. He used to be with my best friend who's an ESFJ and he cheated on her while away on vacation. Now they're sort of broken up and he practically is begging her to take him back, but somehow I can tell he's torn about the relationship. He's started smoking weed wayy too much, sometimes a couple times a day and I can tell it's become a problem, there have been instances where he's put it before his relationship. He really is a nice guy, but I used to think he had it all together, and now I'm starting to realize there's a lot of emotional issues there and they seem to be getting worse out of no where. I asked him why he thinks he smokes so much now and he really didn't have an answer for me. He hasn't seemed to give any thought to it at all. Which confuses me so much because he's a really aware and thoughtful person, i mean we're both intps and psychology majors. I've never seen him so avoidant of everything. I don't even know how to approach this issue because he doesn't think there's a problem. I guess what I'm asking is do you know of INTP guys in this situation? Or any input would be great. (But I did tell my friend to officially break it off with him since he's not emotionally healthy right now)