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- Jul 6, 2010
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- MBTI Type
- INFP
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- 6w7
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- so/sx
dear NTs,
my INTP brother is a very smart, very lazy student.
the problem is that my ESFJ mom is killing herself (seriously she is overworked already and now this) trying to do my brother's work that he doesn't do.
i say natural consequences. let him fail.
she wants to protect him and feels bad for him and does not see it this way. since i can't seem to change my mom's approach on this subject, any ideas on helping motivate my brother?
the obvious solution to all this, i realize, is to just stop caring, but i blame NFP. i can't.
my INTP brother is a very smart, very lazy student.
the problem is that my ESFJ mom is killing herself (seriously she is overworked already and now this) trying to do my brother's work that he doesn't do.
i say natural consequences. let him fail.
she wants to protect him and feels bad for him and does not see it this way. since i can't seem to change my mom's approach on this subject, any ideas on helping motivate my brother?
the obvious solution to all this, i realize, is to just stop caring, but i blame NFP. i can't.