skylights
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- Joined
- Jul 6, 2010
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- so/sx
If by pushing back you mean asserting yourself when boundaries have been pushed I don't see that as a problem. I try to respect other peoples boundaries and I do expect the same from others.
It's when those boundaries are based on some kind of paranoia with an aggressive response that problems start to occur.
Out of curiosity, how do you judge the difference?