These moments might be the bane of my existence
- But through experience, it's always more beneficial to more or less "conform" to the current situation.
For example: A few months ago, at a party, some major BS drama had went down when a boyfriend of 1 and a half years cheated on the girlfriend. We didn't know too many people at the party, but I was decent friends with her. So of course she ended up on my shoulder blasting me with the "emo"/me feeling like a sensotard. Initially I was for a loss at what to do, but then it occurred to me. Using my intuitive nature, I realized that If I continued to act like a sensotard, she would either think that I was a cold asshole/didn't care about her feelings, or my good friend would just feel worse.
Use your Intuition to assess a few possible outcomes, use your judging nature to pick the one best suited for either your or his/her gain, and proceed using logic to plan out the best route for engagement (mine was arm around shoulder/patting the back/telling her to remember the good times, but to be aware that there are always better people out there). The result, was a better relationship, and a night spent, alone, in my dorm
. In summary: Do your best to conform, despite if it goes against all other gut feelings, because in the end you might get something out of it, instead of appearing to being socially akward or just pure cold. Hope that helps