thescientist
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- Joined
- Jul 23, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- INTJ
- Enneagram
- 5w4
I was just curious to see if there are many female NT's out there who either find it difficult to find a relationship, keep a relationship, or just stay interested in relationships in general.
I find it difficult to meet the right person. I think it has to do with my standards. I can tell right away if I will connect with someone or if someone intrigues me. Most of the time...they DONT...so they just immediately go in the "No" pile.
I can make friends just fine for an INTJ, but relationship material is so difficult to come by. Someone I'm attracted to, physically, mentally and can simultaneously share similar values and interests...does it even exist?
Maybe my standards are unrealistic?
Maybe I'm searching for some transcendental elusive connection?
Maybe I'm meeting too many S's? Sometimes I wish I could escape to a world full of N's...
I just can't settle for something that doesn't feel 100% right...