I'm an INTJ female.
My boyfriend is an ISFJ.
I would love people's perspective on the strengths and weaknesses of this relationship / pairing.
My observations:
- he "randomly" cries. We'll be discussing feelings (or whatever) and I'll look over and his eyes are tearing up.
- he doesn't always seem to have a mind of his own. It seems like he's trying to please people with his answers, instead of fervently telling people what HE thinks.
- he does a lot for other people and it's a tough for him to ask for loaned-money back from his friends.
- he's definitely a protector type. His height is perfect for that. He's 6'5" ... while also being the kindest person I've ever met.
There are a lot of positives, too, but I'm bad about pointing out negatives. I'm sorry.
My boyfriend is an ISFJ.
I would love people's perspective on the strengths and weaknesses of this relationship / pairing.
My observations:
- he "randomly" cries. We'll be discussing feelings (or whatever) and I'll look over and his eyes are tearing up.
- he doesn't always seem to have a mind of his own. It seems like he's trying to please people with his answers, instead of fervently telling people what HE thinks.
- he does a lot for other people and it's a tough for him to ask for loaned-money back from his friends.
- he's definitely a protector type. His height is perfect for that. He's 6'5" ... while also being the kindest person I've ever met.
There are a lot of positives, too, but I'm bad about pointing out negatives. I'm sorry.