Polinares
New member
- Joined
- May 29, 2017
- Messages
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- MBTI Type
- ISFP
- Enneagram
- 937
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/so
Me (female ISFP) and my INTP boyfriend have been together for a little less than a year. Yet some issues regarding our different personalities seem to never stop clashing, i.e.:
He's shown me in many ways he cares about me, and I trust him very much. Meaning that I have no doubts that if he thought he was done with me he'd tell me. But what I do question is if a relationship between such different individuals can be good for me. Anyone else has similar experiences?
- his need for an enormous amount of alone time. I'm pretty independent but compared to him I feel as clingy as ivy, with me working an "I miss you" after half a week of not seeing each other and him starting to miss me after at least 10 days
- my way of needing more communication when distant (that is 5 days a week, more if something comes up in the weekend)
- Me not being too assertive or vocal about things that bother me (I've stopped complaining after he told me I was smothering him at first) while he can be brutally honest easily
He's shown me in many ways he cares about me, and I trust him very much. Meaning that I have no doubts that if he thought he was done with me he'd tell me. But what I do question is if a relationship between such different individuals can be good for me. Anyone else has similar experiences?
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