Chloe
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... so I read few times people are mentioning this as Es trait, ... attention whores, need to be accepted etc., but is it really E's-only trait? Or it has not so much to do with types...I'm thinking about needing for acceptance in negative way like being overly dependent on other people's opinion about you etc?
I mean, no matter if you're an E or I, ... you can't make people always like you ... so shouldn't that be more linked to having trust in yourself than with types?
basically, i feel that people on this forum are severly misusing this mbti stuff... misinterpreting it more often than dont.
So it often comes down to stereotypes and generalisaitions, ... and the worst of it; having excuse for behaving in unhealthy way...
after all i think there can be division between unhealthy and healthy...
person has real self so depending on how much it's hidden / neglected... person is healthy or unhealthy. it's following your true nature.. but misuse of mbti makes people put everything under their "real nature"...
so ex. being lazy 30 years old "kid" still not earning your own food is because you're P..not having friends is because you're I.. etc.
i'm not saying people should all be perfect but instead of being tool for removing delusions... mbti is misused for staying in it...sometimes.
eh,yeah..i derailed my own thread already.
I mean, no matter if you're an E or I, ... you can't make people always like you ... so shouldn't that be more linked to having trust in yourself than with types?
basically, i feel that people on this forum are severly misusing this mbti stuff... misinterpreting it more often than dont.
So it often comes down to stereotypes and generalisaitions, ... and the worst of it; having excuse for behaving in unhealthy way...
after all i think there can be division between unhealthy and healthy...
person has real self so depending on how much it's hidden / neglected... person is healthy or unhealthy. it's following your true nature.. but misuse of mbti makes people put everything under their "real nature"...
so ex. being lazy 30 years old "kid" still not earning your own food is because you're P..not having friends is because you're I.. etc.
i'm not saying people should all be perfect but instead of being tool for removing delusions... mbti is misused for staying in it...sometimes.
eh,yeah..i derailed my own thread already.