Criticism on my person = bad.
Criticism on everything else = gold.
I like this:
When somebody calls you an asshole, tell them fuck off.
When somebody else calls you an asshole, tell them to fuck off.
When another person after that calls you an asshole, tell them to fuck off.
When, yet another person calls you an asshole, look at yourself before you tell them to fuck off.
And...
Another way to look at it, is instead of letting opinions, criticisms, insults, incentives, or whatever move you—or instead of shutting out the whole world with solid air-tight reinforced impenetrable walls… build doors.
In other words, you make what matters, matter. Because if you really think about it, only you are in control of you.
Depends.
Criticism on my person = bad.
Criticism on everything else = gold.
- The students of that class said to me your lessons were too difficult. Maybe you should... => OK, I'll try to do better!
- After reading the first chapter of your new novel, I don't care whether your main character lives or dies => Thank you!
- You will never be able to write a thesis =>
Depends.
Criticism on my person = bad.
Criticism on everything else = gold.
- The students of that class said to me your lessons were too difficult. Maybe you should... => OK, I'll try to do better!
- After reading the first chapter of your new novel, I don't care whether your main character lives or dies => Thank you!
- You will never be able to write a thesis =>
I have to agree constructive criticism is more than welcome. I love getting good feedback. However I can't stand unconstructive criticism. In that case I might just criticize their criticism.
How do ENTPs deal with people criticizing them, especially valid criticisms?
Bullshitting. It's an art, but only if done well.