The only problem is one person's friendly is another person's flirting.
The only problem is one person's friendly is another person's flirting.
SHAME
If you can't stand the heat...
Seriously, if you can't defend your questionable moral behavior against scrutiny is that my problem or your problem?
That's why you have the discussion... I am going according to the definition of flirting earlier in this thread. I definitely don't agree with people trying to dampen their partner's enthusiasm just because they want them all to themselves.
You get to know stuff about each other, you tend to talk about personal things, so the bond is very real. You connect...
To me, those feelings are real. The flirting might be meant in a joking way and is more a means to an end, but the effect it has, is real, and creates a feeling of safety andtrust with the other person often. And that kinda intense bond is precious to me, so I do seek it out.
Yeah and I know what my "version" of friendly is (see above), so, if someone wants to INTERPRET my behavior (through THEIR OWN FILTER) to mean that I WANT THEM, that is on them, and not me.
Being an NT does not mean that everything is morally permissable or that all moral views must pass the logical sniff test. We are humans, not robots.
And the NF out-NTs the NT.:rolli: Sigh, stop telling others how to live. As long as they do not hurt people with their ways, who cares, honestly.
:rolli: Sigh, stop telling others how to live. As long as they do not hurt people with their ways, who cares, honestly.
And the NF out-NTs the NT.
I'm not a hopeless flirt. I got hurt to many times, so I guess flirting is useless for me anyways.
I'm not justifying anything, just pointing out the irrational.You just want to believe what you want to believe and you conceal this under a load of bullshit logical justification.
ENFPs' love seems very diffuse. They love everyone, and equally. And there is no problem with that, but this is just in stark contrast to the way that others operate. To me, as an INFJ, it is bit like emotional whoring.
I definitely don't agree with people trying to dampen their partner's enthusiasm just because they want them all to themselves.
ENFPs' love seems very diffuse. They love everyone, and equally. And there is no problem with that, but this is just in stark contrast to the way that others operate. To me, as an INFJ, it is bit like emotional whoring.
Seriously, if you can't defend your questionable moral behavior against scrutiny is that my problem or your problem?
ENFPs' love seems very diffuse. They love everyone, and equally. And there is no problem with that, but this is just in stark contrast to the way that others operate. To me, as an INFJ, it is a bit like emotional whoring.
What questionable moral behavior? Flirting? I'm a mad flirt and I make no apologies for it.
You remind me of an uptight little church girl.