Hello,
I'm trying to figure out if I could be an enfj (or at least closer to that than anything else) and one stumbling block I'm finding is that almost all descriptions and comments focus almost exclusively on Fe and its desire to fit in or please others.
How does Ni fit in? Wouldn't the independence of Ni contradict the seeming conformity of Fe? Why do some descriptions classify enfj as a "leader" type, while others suggest that they primarily follow (to go along with others or fit in with their particular social world?)
I'm trying to figure out if I could be an enfj (or at least closer to that than anything else) and one stumbling block I'm finding is that almost all descriptions and comments focus almost exclusively on Fe and its desire to fit in or please others.
How does Ni fit in? Wouldn't the independence of Ni contradict the seeming conformity of Fe? Why do some descriptions classify enfj as a "leader" type, while others suggest that they primarily follow (to go along with others or fit in with their particular social world?)