1) do you guys think you may be showing physiological signs of an emotional response but be unaware you are doing so? Ie you dont know what you are feeling exactly? So the NF picks it up subtle cues, tries to describe it, then screws up as you guys are still not even aware of exactly what is going on yourselves? (Just a Q I really have no idea, so no offense please)
Hmmm, possibly but I come off as a laid back nonchalant kind of guy. And I usually have a sad disappointing face about myself. (I know this because I checked in the mirror.) But this face only happens when I am alone, or listening to my music. When I am with people I have a diffrent look about myself which leads to question when they find me alone, "Are you Okay, you look sad?" I'll respond by saying "Yes I look sad, but I feel fine." Sometimes this line will be followed by "I guess!" (This is my favorite phrase.) Even though I am annoyed by the fact someone just disturbed my mediation and thinking, I still feel obligated to respond. Now the ones who try to ask the further questions are the NFs.Sometimes I think that all NFs graduated with psychology degrees just so they could annoy an NT and have justification for it.
2) Is it this mistaken perception, or the following persecution that is most offensive? (persecution?? what is that exactly, as thats a crazy strong word, and I hope I'd never do that)
Both will be offensive but mistaking my emotions will be proceeded by maybe 2 minutes of me laughing and denying it. And if you prosecute me, well, to keep things short, I become a defense attorney.
3) Or is that maybe they saw and tried to describe what you were projecting outwards before you had a chance to understand it yourself? And thus it is the presumption that they understand that is so offensive, when you do not understand quite yet.
Are you trying to say that NTs are naive about our emotions in a gentle and caring way?
4) does it bother you more that they try and descibe your thoughts, your feelings, or your motivations?
No because, It is usually pretty funny and cute(if it is a girl) when they try to piece things together that are loosely connected. There observations are so out there that I can't help but to not have a conversation about how they came to such conclusions.
5) Do you find this gets used as tool against you when in conflict with an NF? And then you are assigned feelings, motivations and such which are incorrect. (and on that note, potentially later, after analysis, could some of it have been correct?)
Hell Yes, I hate this most. Never argue with an NF. You are going to lose one way or another. I have learned my lesson, and I am done arguing with them.
6) is part of the offense that someone would even try and understand your emotions? Ie its none of our business in the first place?
Nah, sometimes it is cool to see what other people perceive about you. Every type has their own unique special talents and the "Emotional Radar" (That what I will call it) is a quality of the NF. So they have the right to use it. Just like I have the right to abuse the NT talents as well. Hhehehehehehehhehehehehehe