Zhaylin
New member
- Joined
- Jan 2, 2019
- Messages
- 468
- MBTI Type
- ISTJ
- Enneagram
- 952
- Instinctual Variant
- sp/so
I despise conflict (CHAOS!), so I avoid it at all costs unless absolutely necessary.
When I was a kid, I stepped in front of a bully and took the knife he was threatening my little brother with. Another time, I stood in between a bully and my best friend and I told the bully off lol. When my kids were teens, I jumped between my eldest son and one of my daughters when they were scrapping, and he spat on me (intended for her).
As for *myself* though... I've gotten into 2 fist fights my entire life. I was pummeled by one (when I was a kid), and I defended myself from the other (adult). I've vocally defended myself, enraged, only 3 times my entire life (my child molesting Uncle, my obnoxious brother-in-law, a friend of my ex-husband).
I've calmly defended myself a number of times. I tend to be accommodating or just brush things off.
When I was a kid, I stepped in front of a bully and took the knife he was threatening my little brother with. Another time, I stood in between a bully and my best friend and I told the bully off lol. When my kids were teens, I jumped between my eldest son and one of my daughters when they were scrapping, and he spat on me (intended for her).
As for *myself* though... I've gotten into 2 fist fights my entire life. I was pummeled by one (when I was a kid), and I defended myself from the other (adult). I've vocally defended myself, enraged, only 3 times my entire life (my child molesting Uncle, my obnoxious brother-in-law, a friend of my ex-husband).
I've calmly defended myself a number of times. I tend to be accommodating or just brush things off.