I likely could
Never do it. I have never met an INFJ I found the least bit romantically attractive. I have never met an NF I have found attractive. I don't think I have ever been attracted to a 'F'eeling type, come to think of it. ... yuck. Friendship - yes. but not dating. no way. also, I find men who are overly demonstrative to be repulsive. Sometimes my husbands Fe annoys me; though years ago when I was more insecure I suppose I liked it. not that INFJ's are particularly demonstrative, but ... that is just unattractive to me in general. Though I do appreciate a well of depth and feeling, and they need to be capable of love.
I have dated, or been attracted to, a few ISTP's and ESTP's. I once briefly dated an ESFJ guy, pitty dating (I was young and didn't want to be mean) - it didn't last long; very unattractive to me.
The only guys I have ever actually really, really, really wanted have been INTJ's or ENTP's. Really NT's are what catch my attention, but INTP's don't usually quite do it for me; though they can make great friends. And I have never -ever- found an ENTJ attractive; for some reason total turn off - though, again I have ENTJ friends/family I love.
So, the conclusion is ~ They have to be NT. and they have to be a
dominant N. ... come to think of it ~ I have been head-over-heels in love with 2 INTJs. though I did marry an ENTP, but he persued me quite a bit first.
I did meet an INTJ who I felt was enough of a mirror of me to be kindred-spirit-soul-mate-sparkly-sorta-material (similar manuerisms, similar facial expressions, same-way-of-talking. same humor. sorta; just some similarities) ... but then he was different enough to be overwhelmingly intriguing and anything but boring. That was attractive.
Question for other INFJ's, or anyone I guess ~
How many of you would identify as sapiosexual?
http://www.unwords.com/unword/sapiosexuality.html
^ I am.
I think this is why I find myself attracted to type 5's; not that other types can't be cerebral. but, you know.
especially 5w4's. especially sx's.
But. yeah. I have never found an INFJ I was attracted to.
Once, I chatted online with a man about my age, same exact typology - INFJ 9w8 sx/sp 974. and ... it was so boring. it petered out. we agreed on everything. so just kinda stopped talking...
slightly
& possibly an over-share
If I had to pick a "cartoon crush" it would be Steve from Arthur Christmas. I think he is likely an INTJ, no?
FTW
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LutTTa8aKEo
EDIT: ... I have found an ISFP male attractive before. so I guess I have found a F to date-able. #LiarLiarPantsOnFire ^^