ayoitsStepho
Twerking & Lurking
- Joined
- Sep 20, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- ISFP
- Enneagram
- 4w3
- Instinctual Variant
- so/sx
+1i don't like any generic compliment that could be applied to anyone, a true compliment has to be specially tailored towards me. so anything standard or generic is bad for a 4.
I don't like being told generic compliments because it just shows that the person giving the compliment knows nothing about me. Don't tell me you think I'm pretty or that you like my skin- tell me that you like that way I do my makeup or you really enjoy my morbid/almost socially unacceptable sense of humor. Gotta be a bit more specific with me. Want you to make me feel like I'm the only girl in the world (*cough* Over popular song reference *cough*).
I always get kind of upset when I get more compliments on my hair when it's straight because it makes me feel like nobody actually likes my normal curly hair. It really doesn't make sense for me to think this way.Back-handed compliment about my appearance. "You look so good with make up.... without it, with your head down, and your small body, you look like a retarded little girl". hahaha.