Moiety
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Then a factor of trust is missing (not blaming anyone here, just saying). Either she has a history of having something to defend or perhaps she needs a primer in how to interpret and respond to your "opening up" questions? What is it exactly that you wish to deeply connect on?
I just wanted to be her friend. Wanted to show her how I really am with people outside the family. She has no idea I have a sense of humor, am very relaxed and a bunch of other things. She just judges everything I do or say, so it's hard for me to put aside my Fi and just connect with her (specially since she places value on appearances so much). And she is 40 years older than me too...from a very different time and context...whatever lol