Into It
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The other day I was told at a party, and this was before anyone had started drinking, that I looked as if I may have "had a girl or two in my time-" which is far more close to the truth if taken literally than how they meant it. They said I was "putting out that vibe" that made me look "not manipulative- but like you could manipulate whoever you wanted." Also, I was not actively pursuing either of these two girls, which is a main point. Could it have been that I was open to the possibilities of getting to know either one of them better that I looked this way? Maybe, but I feel that way about pretty much everyone. So apparently, I may look like I'm out there seducing people when that's not really the case. And when this happened I was somewhat shocked, but the idea of this being an "ENFP" misunderstanding came to my attention.
ENFP's, have you run into this?
Edit: Come to think of it though, I may just fear that I do have the ability to manipulate. But I definitely wasn't being manipulative at this time, and I don't make an effort to manipulate people except for very rarely, and it is usually regretable and impulsive. But I don't think this editing is relevant.
ENFP's, have you run into this?
Edit: Come to think of it though, I may just fear that I do have the ability to manipulate. But I definitely wasn't being manipulative at this time, and I don't make an effort to manipulate people except for very rarely, and it is usually regretable and impulsive. But I don't think this editing is relevant.