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- so/sx
So holding grudges is an Ni thing rather than an Si thing?
I find that Ni users will "hold grudges" in terms of never forgetting how you have behaved and always using that in future decisions regarding you. It is part of Ni's usage of time-patterns, I assume. Si users will remember past incidents but will be more likely to attribute the consequences of those incidents to who you are now than applying past behavior to how you will behave now.