AphroditeGoneAwry
failure to thrive
- Joined
- Feb 20, 2009
- Messages
- 5,585
- MBTI Type
- INfj
- Enneagram
- 451
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/so
What is your age? 30s? 40s? Perhaps an easier way to approach your type might be to determine which functions you used to greatest proficiency in your teens and 20s. Someone in their 30s and beyond is more likely to find their usage of other functions leveling out or improving as they approach midlife, particulary if, like yourself, they already have a good working knowledge of the functions and have learned to approach the world from different viewpoints/different ways than in their younger years.
46.
Oh, ya know. I've shared stuff on here. I think I just forced into being a major introvert. So, I suspect I have good introverted functions in all the realms. I was an animal activist type in my childhood. I have always been sensitive. I have always struggled with keeping friends, as a child. Not as an adult. I have the same friends I've had for almost 20 years. I like to keep my besties around; if you were able to become my bestie, why would I ever want to replace you?
I never liked constraints. I literally broke out of daycare on several situations; like a toddler jail-break. lol I'm simple yet I'm complex. I sleep in my clothes. I have an empty refrigerator. Yet I'm complex as well. I'm basically a walking dichotomy. So I just don't know. I identify with lots of type descriptions. I like to be around my loved ones, but not necessarily DOING a lot of shit. I like to chillax. You know? Yet I know how to have a lotta fun. I know the best places to go, the best food to eat, the best lakes to swim in, the best pubs, the best bands, so yeah.
I have little patience for whiny or entitled behavior. When I was a child? I just always remember thinking why did my so-called friends have to be so mean? Why couldn't people just be real and genuine and loving?