Alea_iacta_est
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I'm wondering if its just me, or if this might be true to many that are 3s with 5 fixes or 5s with 3 fixes.
I experience social phobia in the form of sensitivity to rejection, particularly in the area of being seen as incompetent and useless. I think the cause of this may be from my core 3's fear of failure, which is intensified by the 5 fear of incompetence. There are stark contrasts between both types, one being that 3s are self-confident with a deeply self conscious side while 5s for the most part are self-conscious, so if one were to pair them together, would it create a sort of hyper-anxiety in embarrassing situations?
Here's what I'm thinking:
3: I want to be seen as successful when others are observing me do something.
5: (Self-consciousness)I don't want to be seen as useless in this matter. (Generates Anxiety)
3: Oh man, if I'm seen as useless, then I'm a failure. (Generates more anxiety due to the portent of shame and omen of 3's fear of failure)
5: If I'm a failure, then I'm completely vulnerable to the environment. (Generates even more anxiety due to succumbing to 5's fear of incompetence)
*Actual event happens badly*
3: I'm a failure.
5: I'm incompetent.
How it plays out with me directly:
3. I want to be seen as successful when others are observing me do something.
5: (Pessimism and Self-consciousness) I don't want to be seen as useless in this matter. (Generates Anxiety)
3: Oh man, if I'm seen as useless, then I'm a failure. (Generates more anxiety due to the portent of shame and omen of 3's fear of failure)
5: If I'm a failure, then I'm completely vulnerable to the environment. (Generates even more anxiety due to succumbing to 5's fear of incompetence, anxiety is overwhelming)
8: Shut the fuck up, you're just making it worse, just fucking do it.
3 + 5: But what if
8: Just fucking do it
*Event happens badly*
3: I'm a failure.
5: I'm incompetent.
8: The battle's over, but we still have to win the war, so just let it go and stay confident. (Triple suppression of emotions now, 5 attempts to suppress shame by rationalizing it, 8 attempts to suppress anxiety by maintaining self-confidence, 3 attempts to suppress 8's burning anger by reminding it that explosive anger will make us lose)
I need some Tritypes with 3 and 5 to respond.
I experience social phobia in the form of sensitivity to rejection, particularly in the area of being seen as incompetent and useless. I think the cause of this may be from my core 3's fear of failure, which is intensified by the 5 fear of incompetence. There are stark contrasts between both types, one being that 3s are self-confident with a deeply self conscious side while 5s for the most part are self-conscious, so if one were to pair them together, would it create a sort of hyper-anxiety in embarrassing situations?
Here's what I'm thinking:
3: I want to be seen as successful when others are observing me do something.
5: (Self-consciousness)I don't want to be seen as useless in this matter. (Generates Anxiety)
3: Oh man, if I'm seen as useless, then I'm a failure. (Generates more anxiety due to the portent of shame and omen of 3's fear of failure)
5: If I'm a failure, then I'm completely vulnerable to the environment. (Generates even more anxiety due to succumbing to 5's fear of incompetence)
*Actual event happens badly*
3: I'm a failure.
5: I'm incompetent.
How it plays out with me directly:
3. I want to be seen as successful when others are observing me do something.
5: (Pessimism and Self-consciousness) I don't want to be seen as useless in this matter. (Generates Anxiety)
3: Oh man, if I'm seen as useless, then I'm a failure. (Generates more anxiety due to the portent of shame and omen of 3's fear of failure)
5: If I'm a failure, then I'm completely vulnerable to the environment. (Generates even more anxiety due to succumbing to 5's fear of incompetence, anxiety is overwhelming)
8: Shut the fuck up, you're just making it worse, just fucking do it.
3 + 5: But what if
8: Just fucking do it
*Event happens badly*
3: I'm a failure.
5: I'm incompetent.
8: The battle's over, but we still have to win the war, so just let it go and stay confident. (Triple suppression of emotions now, 5 attempts to suppress shame by rationalizing it, 8 attempts to suppress anxiety by maintaining self-confidence, 3 attempts to suppress 8's burning anger by reminding it that explosive anger will make us lose)
I need some Tritypes with 3 and 5 to respond.