[NF] What kind of fantasies do you female NF's have?

[Yomama99]

I'm interested in what kind of daydreams/fantasies you NF's have. Please do tell, just so I earn your trust most of my fantasies involve me killing lots of evil people and banging a woman.

 

[niffer]

Can we ban him? Please?

 

[Natrushka]

:banned:

 

[Sahara]

I fantasise about tying you up with chains, whipping you and leaving you like that.

 

[Totenkindly]

I fantasise about tying you up with chains, whipping you and leaving you like that.

I fantasize seeing you do all that to him.

(I wonder what he was expecting: Holly Hobbie, My Pretty Ponies, unicorn suncatchers, and lots of flowers?)

 

[Wolf]

Can we ban him? Please?

Seconded.

:banned:

I fantasise about tying you up with chains, whipping you and leaving you like that.

I fantasize seeing you do all that to him.

(I wonder what he was expecting: Holly Hobbie, My Pretty Ponies, unicorn suncatchers, and lots of flowers?)

I want to watch, too!

 

[Sahara]

I fantasize seeing you do all that to him.

(I wonder what he was expecting: Holly Hobbie, My Pretty Ponies, unicorn suncatchers, and lots of flowers?)

My toys may be pink, but they are not soft.

I want to watch, too!

No freebies here, you want to watch you got to pay. Premium rates too.

 

[runvardh]

My toys may be pink, but they are not soft.

Rrrrrrrow

No freebies here, you want to watch you got to pay. Premium rates too.

How much?

 

[Oberon]

NOTE TO EVERYONE: I'm not a toy! Really!

 

[cafe]

My fantasies range from going on a nice weekend getaway with my hubby to traveling the world. My most vivid, however has to be watching an enemy wake up and realize that the pain in their neck that woke them was me cutting their throat. I watch them realize they are dead, that it was me who made them die, I watch the life drain from their eyes and smell their blood before I creep quietly back out their bedroom window. I haven't had that one in a few years, nor have I had the one about stabbing myself in the heart. Life has obviously gotten better.

 

[Oberon]

DEFINITELY not cafe's toy.

 

[Totenkindly]

Please remind me one more time NEVER to cross an INFJ.... eeek.

DEFINITELY not cafe's toy.

Squeak.

 

[Oberon]

Please remind me one more time NEVER to cross an INFJ.... eeek.

Never cross an INFJ.

I hope that was helpful...

 

[cafe]

They're probably not all as psychotic as me, nor have they read a bunch of Tom Clancy and Stephen Hunter novels.

 

[Totenkindly]

Never cross an INFJ.
I hope that was helpful...

Remind me not to dot them either.

They're probably not all as psychotic as me, nor have they read a bunch of Tom Clancy and Stephen Hunter novels.

Out of all the INFJ women I have known, I have trouble thinking of any but one of them who has NOT had violent fantasies ... and/or violent bloody nightmares that wake them up at night.

(Even my daughter.)

 

[Oberon]

Remind me not to dot them either.

[slaps his own face]

I can't believe you said that to me. Okay...

"Don't dot them either!"

 

[Totenkindly]

"Don't dot them either!"

Yep. Predictable as clockwork.

 

[ptgatsby]

Out of all the INFJ women I have known, I have trouble thinking of any but one of them who has NOT had violent fantasies ... and/or violent bloody nightmares that wake them up at night.

(Even my daughter.)

That's interesting. My GF (INTJ) doesn't remember her dreams... but her's are almost exactly the opposite - always the victim. I wonder if there is something to that, cause it's the dead opposite of how she acts in RL.

 

[Totenkindly]

That's interesting. My GF (INTJ) doesn't remember her dreams... but her's are almost exactly the opposite - always the victim. I wonder if there is something to that, cause it's the dead opposite of how she acts in RL.

This is totally off the cuff (and I admit it), but the very first thought that ran through my mind (and I will just think about women right now, although it might apply to men):

Are INFJ women terrified at the thought of lashing out at / hurting others?
And are INTJ women terrified at the thought of being powerless?

[Control issue: One fears losing control and hurting others, the other fears losing control and not being able to resolve/accomplish things]

And could these fears be what is coming out in the dreams? Are these negative feelings suppressed during the day and/or otherwise ignored, only to be dredged up by the subconscious and dealt with during sleep and/or daydreaming?

I wonder...

 

[ptgatsby]

I wonder...

I demand data! NFPs! Share your fantasies!

(I highly suspect that P's have a different pattern than Js!)