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Toxic Feminism

When you think "feminism", what do you think of?


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anticlimatic

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Men interalize stress while women act outwardly. The suicides and mass shootings are apart of someone exploting due to heavy internalization.

That's the healthy way to express stress- internal for men, external for women.
 

Jaguar

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I have another question, why didn't mass shootings exist 20-30 years ago?

Killeen, Texas: Oct. 16, 1991.

24 killed (including shooter) and 27 wounded.

Shooter: 35-year-old George Hennard.

Motive: Hatred of women, ethnic minorities.
 

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Im talking about a mass shooter who goes ape shit on a crowd.Work with me here.

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Lark

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That's interesting, I'm going to look into those people.



This is good advice, but it's hard to fight against the ethos of my generation. :D




I wouldn't dispute this. That's why I felt so guilty about saying "girl".



I find that surprising, since it clashes with what I have been taught growing up. Maybe we just have different timeframes in mind for what we consider traditional? How far back are we going? I always felt like women were the ones who shouldered most of the burdens of responsibility, but I might have an idiosyncratic experience:

-In my home life, my dad was definitely the less sensible one. My mom always told me not to listen to my father.

-All through school, almost all of my teachers/principals happened to be women. Usually they would lightly tease the boys in class about being lazy students and praise the girls for being more mature (nothing vicious or anything, just a general slant).

-At my university, though there was a fairly even distribution among professors, about 70% of all the students were women, and the guys were usually the inferior students (it was a liberal arts school).

-Every job I've worked, I have answered directly to a woman. The CEO of the current company I work for is a woman, and the GM of every branch I have worked at has been a woman.

-Even in the books I read growing up, there was usually some sensible/resourceful (often brilliant) girl who shoulders a lot of adult responsibility and protects the other characters from danger (Hermione in Harry Potter, Annabeth in "The Olympians" series, Violet Baudelaire in "A Series of Unfortunate Events", Lyra in "His Dark Materials", Katniss Everdeen in "The Hunger Games", to name a few of the most popular series of my youth).

I just always got the impression guys were supposed to be impulsive risk-takers, and women were the ones with a good head on their shoulders. I even tried to live up to that as a kid. My mom always told me guys matured later, it was just scientific fact.

History is women coming along behind with a bucket.

I cant remember who said it but I always thought it referred to what you discuss here.
 

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History is women coming along behind with a bucket.

I cant remember who said it but I always thought it referred to what you discuss here.

I wasn't sure I understood the bucket reference, so I looked it up:

“History is a commentary on the various and continuing incapabilities of men. What is history? History is women following behind with the bucket.”

― Alan Bennett, The History Boys

Sounds about right...but does it have to be this way?
 

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4 of the 10 deadliest mass shootings in the USA happened more than 25 years ago.

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Apparently the mother of all amok shootings happened in Texas in 1966 when an ex marine sniper with a brain tumor shot people from a tower on the university campus for an hour and a half. That was over 50 years ago.

Taxi Driver, a film has has probably also contributed to somewhat glorifying this phenomenon, was made in 1976. Over 40 years ago.

I do think however that these things spread like an epidemic. There have always been frustrated and unbalanced people that snapped, but I'm under the impression that these shootings just like lone wolf terror attacks are basically fashions, fads that unhinged (mostly young) men turn to because they have repeatedly heard about it and it has been lingering in the back of their mind as an option. Basically a Werther effect turned outward.

Also, mass shootings tend to be an American thing. In Europe wannabe Robert De Niros, religious martyrs or selfdeclared patriots run vehicles into crowds or eratically stab people with a kitchen knife (also a recent trend among Palestinian men in Israel). Three cheers for local color!:dry:
 

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4 of the 10 deadliest mass shootings in the USA happened more than 25 years ago.

MW-FV430_top_sh_20171002105440_ZH.jpg


Apparently the mother of all amok shootings happened in Texas in 1966 when an ex marine sniper with a brain tumor shot people from a tower on the university campus for an hour and a half. That was over 50 years ago.

Taxi Driver, a film has has probably also contributed to somewhat glorifying this phenomenon, was made in 1976. Over 40 years ago.

I do think however that these things spread like an epidemic. There have always been frustrated and unbalanced people that snapped, but I'm under the impression that these shootings just like lone wolf terror attacks are basically fashions, fads that unhinged (mostly young) men turn to because they have repeatedly heard about it and it has been lingering in the back of their mind as an option. Basically a Werther effect turned outward.

Also, mass shootings tend to be an American thing. In Europe wannabe Robert De Niros, religious martyrs or selfdeclared patriots run vehicles into crowds or eratically stab people with a kitchen knife (also a recent trend among Palestinian men in Israel). Three cheers for local color!:dry:

I think his point was that he thought life was better when he was a kid, at least I think that'd be the most charitable understanding of what they had to say but its all fucked up so would you know?

I've noticed a downward spiral and its not just with that user but its definitely evident enough with them.
 

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Literally going postal might be another example of a combination of amok and epidemic behavior. I wasn't really aware that postal workers shooting at their workplace was such a huge thing in the eighties.

List of postal killings - Wikipedia

 
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