Ragù
New member
- Joined
- Mar 7, 2017
- Messages
- 35
- MBTI Type
- INFP
So i decided to answer some chosen questions from the questionares. Maybe you have an idea about myself and my type 
How are you doing? Are there any major life events/illnesses/other issues that might be influencing you? Did you write this in one sitting, or have you pondered these issues deeply? Give us a sense of "where you're at" right now.
I'm doing fine, thank you. Just a bit of headache so my answers could be less elaborated than headacheless. I'm doing this in one sitting otherwise i forget and i will never ever do it again.
-what makes you angry?
When people disrespect me. When people think they know myself and my opinions and reasons better than me.
-what do you like most about the favorite people in your life?
I like their honesty and genuinity. I like how non-judgy they are.
-what do you like/dislike most about yourself?
I am resourceful. If i want to do something i find a way to do it. I am easily entertained. I am generally happy and laid-back. I am also argumentative at times, lazy, terrible with money haha.
-do you care about being fashionable? why/why not?
I care about giving the right vibe based on my mood. I don't follow trends but i incorporate what fits me into my wardrobe.
-do you prefer to fit in or stand out?
This is a though one. I like to be in a chill group where's there's no judgement and people know each other and there's no competitiveness. Somewhere where i fit and i can trust. But i also like to be given credit for my own characteristics, as i do with others. Everyone is best at something and it's nice to each have our individuality.
-what activities do you enjoy?
I like eating. And watching series. Go to museums. Read cool stuff on the internet. Dancing in the car. Go out for a beer with friends. Crafting stuff. Reading a book. Travelling.
-what do you spend the most time thinking about?
Food. And i make scenarios in my mind of how the future will be. And think about which steps i need to take to get there. Or i think about situations i'd like to be in that make me feel good.
-How much have you changed over the years? Who were you as a child?
I think i'm the same at heart. I was really introverted as kid and i spent most of my time reading. Didn't talk a lot. Didn't have many friends cause i found other kids stupid. Adults had difficulty interacting with me. Then i started going out and to parties and i started drinking and smoking and met people and had my dose of fun, and got a bit reckless, so to say. Now I have one or two close friends and we go out for a beer or to the cinemas or we visit places together. I've learnt how to interact with every person and be polite and nice. I am more open towards other people. More private and cautious.
-How do you respond to clingy people?
Ignore them hoping they go away. Sometimes i can be a bit mean as to no reinforce the habit. Like with dogs. It doesn't always work though.
- When you are romantically interested in an individual, how do you generally act (shy, outgoing, annoying, etc.)?
I think I'm just myself. Maybe a bit more enthusiastic than i normally am.
What is your favorite food? What's so great about it?
Pasta. In a lot of ways. It gives me a lot of satisfaction and it varies, still being itself. You can have it in different ways each day of the week and never get bored by it.
-Do you orientate by general directions or by landmarks?
Both. I'm curious to know which cardinal point i'm facing. I also quickly make a 3d visualization of the space around me with streets and how they connect to each other. If I have to drive to a new place or similar i use landmarks to know where i have to turn or if i'm on the right road without having to 'imagine' the road every time.
-Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?
I don't hold religious beliefs because i don't think that it is necessary. All i need i have it in myself and not in an invented external being.
-What do you think of daily chores?
They should be abolished. And there should be more research towards magic so we can finally snap our fingers and have the dishes done.
-What do you yearn for in life? Why?
Happiness. Because when you're happy everything is easier and life is more beautiful.
-What tends to weigh on your decisions? (Do you think about people, pro-cons, how you feel about it, etc.)
I think about what i really want. Then if i'm sure i look for objective support on my choice, if i'm not sure i make pro-cons to help me decide. Then i think about how my family is affected. And then i think if my choice is worth it and how i can convince them that it's the right thing for me.
-It's Saturday. You're at home, and your favorite show is about to start. Your friends call you for a night out. What will you do?
Night in with the show obviously. Not even have to think about it.
-What would constitute a perfect day for you?
Waking up with the sun coming in from the window, at my own time, without alarms and feeling refreshed. Grabbing a cappuccino in a bar while reading a good book and enjoying my time. Visiting something with my SO, a museum or taking a walk. Eating something good. Going home and relax, playing games or just talking. Being in the mood to go out with friends for a burger and beer. Coming home not too much tired. Watching a good movie, maybe having some sexerino
and falling asleep naturally.
-What are you most grateful for in your life?
Life itself. The possibility of existence. The fact that i am able to experience the world.
-Is there something that you've dreamt of doing for a long time? Why haven't you done it?
Living abroad. Not enough money.
-Before making a phone call, do you ever rehearse what you're going to say? Why?
Sometimes. Because what i have in my head is like a ball of whool so to correctly convey what i want to, i have to find the start of the thread and unravel it so that it makes sense.
-What do you value most in a friendship?
Honesty. And realness. I want someone i can trust. Who has my back. Who is themselves and tells me their honest opinions and can advice me personally (as in, not using impersonal and banal advices).
-Who would you want with you if you were stranded on a deserted island?
Either someone who knows how to survive and can help me build a tent and stuff or my SO.
-What is your favorite book?
The little prince.
-If you could do anything you wanted right now, what would it be?
Make my headache disappear.
I hope this is enough. And congrats for reaching the end! Here, have a cookie
How are you doing? Are there any major life events/illnesses/other issues that might be influencing you? Did you write this in one sitting, or have you pondered these issues deeply? Give us a sense of "where you're at" right now.
I'm doing fine, thank you. Just a bit of headache so my answers could be less elaborated than headacheless. I'm doing this in one sitting otherwise i forget and i will never ever do it again.
-what makes you angry?
When people disrespect me. When people think they know myself and my opinions and reasons better than me.
-what do you like most about the favorite people in your life?
I like their honesty and genuinity. I like how non-judgy they are.
-what do you like/dislike most about yourself?
I am resourceful. If i want to do something i find a way to do it. I am easily entertained. I am generally happy and laid-back. I am also argumentative at times, lazy, terrible with money haha.
-do you care about being fashionable? why/why not?
I care about giving the right vibe based on my mood. I don't follow trends but i incorporate what fits me into my wardrobe.
-do you prefer to fit in or stand out?
This is a though one. I like to be in a chill group where's there's no judgement and people know each other and there's no competitiveness. Somewhere where i fit and i can trust. But i also like to be given credit for my own characteristics, as i do with others. Everyone is best at something and it's nice to each have our individuality.
-what activities do you enjoy?
I like eating. And watching series. Go to museums. Read cool stuff on the internet. Dancing in the car. Go out for a beer with friends. Crafting stuff. Reading a book. Travelling.
-what do you spend the most time thinking about?
Food. And i make scenarios in my mind of how the future will be. And think about which steps i need to take to get there. Or i think about situations i'd like to be in that make me feel good.
-How much have you changed over the years? Who were you as a child?
I think i'm the same at heart. I was really introverted as kid and i spent most of my time reading. Didn't talk a lot. Didn't have many friends cause i found other kids stupid. Adults had difficulty interacting with me. Then i started going out and to parties and i started drinking and smoking and met people and had my dose of fun, and got a bit reckless, so to say. Now I have one or two close friends and we go out for a beer or to the cinemas or we visit places together. I've learnt how to interact with every person and be polite and nice. I am more open towards other people. More private and cautious.
-How do you respond to clingy people?
Ignore them hoping they go away. Sometimes i can be a bit mean as to no reinforce the habit. Like with dogs. It doesn't always work though.
- When you are romantically interested in an individual, how do you generally act (shy, outgoing, annoying, etc.)?
I think I'm just myself. Maybe a bit more enthusiastic than i normally am.
What is your favorite food? What's so great about it?
Pasta. In a lot of ways. It gives me a lot of satisfaction and it varies, still being itself. You can have it in different ways each day of the week and never get bored by it.
-Do you orientate by general directions or by landmarks?
Both. I'm curious to know which cardinal point i'm facing. I also quickly make a 3d visualization of the space around me with streets and how they connect to each other. If I have to drive to a new place or similar i use landmarks to know where i have to turn or if i'm on the right road without having to 'imagine' the road every time.
-Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?
I don't hold religious beliefs because i don't think that it is necessary. All i need i have it in myself and not in an invented external being.
-What do you think of daily chores?
They should be abolished. And there should be more research towards magic so we can finally snap our fingers and have the dishes done.
-What do you yearn for in life? Why?
Happiness. Because when you're happy everything is easier and life is more beautiful.
-What tends to weigh on your decisions? (Do you think about people, pro-cons, how you feel about it, etc.)
I think about what i really want. Then if i'm sure i look for objective support on my choice, if i'm not sure i make pro-cons to help me decide. Then i think about how my family is affected. And then i think if my choice is worth it and how i can convince them that it's the right thing for me.
-It's Saturday. You're at home, and your favorite show is about to start. Your friends call you for a night out. What will you do?
Night in with the show obviously. Not even have to think about it.
-What would constitute a perfect day for you?
Waking up with the sun coming in from the window, at my own time, without alarms and feeling refreshed. Grabbing a cappuccino in a bar while reading a good book and enjoying my time. Visiting something with my SO, a museum or taking a walk. Eating something good. Going home and relax, playing games or just talking. Being in the mood to go out with friends for a burger and beer. Coming home not too much tired. Watching a good movie, maybe having some sexerino
and falling asleep naturally.-What are you most grateful for in your life?
Life itself. The possibility of existence. The fact that i am able to experience the world.
-Is there something that you've dreamt of doing for a long time? Why haven't you done it?
Living abroad. Not enough money.
-Before making a phone call, do you ever rehearse what you're going to say? Why?
Sometimes. Because what i have in my head is like a ball of whool so to correctly convey what i want to, i have to find the start of the thread and unravel it so that it makes sense.
-What do you value most in a friendship?
Honesty. And realness. I want someone i can trust. Who has my back. Who is themselves and tells me their honest opinions and can advice me personally (as in, not using impersonal and banal advices).
-Who would you want with you if you were stranded on a deserted island?
Either someone who knows how to survive and can help me build a tent and stuff or my SO.
-What is your favorite book?
The little prince.
-If you could do anything you wanted right now, what would it be?
Make my headache disappear.
I hope this is enough. And congrats for reaching the end! Here, have a cookie
