Lord Lavender
Bluered Trickster
- Joined
- Oct 21, 2016
- Messages
- 5,848
- MBTI Type
- EVLF
- Enneagram
- 739
- Instinctual Variant
- so/sp
I'm fucking with you, I think you're one of the most INFJest INFJs that ever INFJed on these forums.
I'm sorry to burst your bubble, I know ENFJ was flattering. You do come across as outgoing and friendly, but this is the internet.
I think I have a very, very good idea of how you vibe IRL, because you're similar to me at least as far as both of us being people who need a lot of introversion.
You love to venture out into the world, maybe go to music stores and stuff (the type of places that have lots of people but with far less 'mandatory' interaction)--sometimes that's enough exposure for you, even though I bet you go home and get a little sad you didn't jump into an interesting conversation you overheard between two strangers or didn't talk to the cute girl you're sure smiled at you because you didn't want to come across as an overbearing brute, or despite being a good reader of people, you had a doubt that she was not interested and was only being polite--maybe at the time you imagined a potential interaction that became a drawn out fantasy (in the span of a few minutes while waiting in line at the coffee shop), only to leave without saying a single word to her. Amirite, or way off mark? BTW those little fantasy future scenarios...they just happen and you can't really help when they come and go, right? you're usually two steps ahead (or behind) the present moment, and this is an almost perpetual feeling for you, like you live on a slightly different phase of time or at least experience time differently than most people experience it....
speculation... It's not that you're socially awkward, you;re actually quite charming and polite in your own subdued way, but you have a certain 'inner' awkwardness that can sometimes make it very difficult for you to be as outgoing as you might like.
You're a people watcher who both loves and loathes the distance you keep from others. You want to be in the midst of everyone and everything but you know you need to stay more to the edge most of the time.
Since we have been debating together a lot and have come across one another a lot latelty would you say i am correctly typed or is another type possible?