ZNP-TBA
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I don't want to derail this thread, but what is up with this MGTOW stuff?! Don't get me wrong, I understand what drives men to that kind of thinking (I sometimes slip into the female version of it) but just abandoning women-kind, and a man's own desires for relationship and family, is just dumb. It's really the perfect counter-extreme to the man-blaming, "strong + liberated" female victim mentality. The solution is always in the middle. It grieves me even in a personal way because I struggle to find good men and sometimes (as aforementioned) start to think I'm just better off leading a single life. It's the same deception that well-intentioned individuals of both genders experience, but it's a lie.
To be fair MGTOW doesn't completely swear off women but they avoid, at all costs, any kind of legal arrangement with women (marriage, children, taxes, domestic partnership, etc.) because MGTOWs believe the family courts are biased against males. I've met educated MGTOWs and I've met really dumb ones too. The educated ones say they are willing to become legally vulnerable again once the courts reform to be more indiscriminate when it comes to gender. The dumber ones believe there is something inherently untrustworthy in women and that they should be kept at arms length away from any commitment but will still gladly indulge in carnal pleasures. My gripe with MGTOWs is that, yes, the court system might be biased in general against men but its not always the case. There are a minority of cases where men get more sympathetic treatment from judges. Also, I think its possible to meet an honest and genuine woman so that even if the courts are biased you know she would never try to legally fuck you over. I think the fact that the option exists for women to drag their men through the blood stained gallows of family courts still makes MGTOWs avoidant of taking the risk.