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Why are Americans so FAKE?

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I highly recommend that the Women of this country read Second Sex by Simone de Beauvior then shut the Fuck, the men need to be put into Marquis De Sades castle... it should be entertaining to see neanderthals murder each other off. It will make a shitload of money for the military, we can even get the Mafia involved for the gambling rackets.



OR READ A BOOK INSTEAD OF POSTING OF HOW I'VE HURT YOUR STUPID HYPOCRITICAL IDEALS, I HIGHLY RECOMMEND READING NICHOMACHEAN ETHICS by ARISTOTLE. [MENTION=9627]Xann, [MENTION=5223]MDP2525[/MENTION], [MENTION=25377]SearchingforPeace[/MENTION]. Below are three pictures that represent this great country.

IN ALL SERIOUSNESS DO WHAT YOU BELIEVE IS BEST, I HAVE A NOSE MAY USE IT LATER IF I SEE YOU THREE AT MY DOORSTEPS WITH TORCHES AND PITCHFORKS.
 

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in all seriousness money is boring

Money means prosperity. And prosperity means better and improved child rearing. And better child rearing means better people.

So more money means less abusive personalities, less controlling personalities, and more creative and empathic personalities.
 

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I highly recommend that the Women of this country read Second Sex by Simone de Beauvior then shut the Fuck, the men need to be put into Marquis De Sades castle... it should be entertaining to see neanderthals murder each other off. It will make a shitload of money for the military, we can even get the Mafia involved for the gambling rackets.



OR READ A BOOK INSTEAD OF POSTING OF HOW I'VE HURT YOUR STUPID HYPOCRITICAL IDEALS, I HIGHLY RECOMMEND READING NICHOMACHEAN ETHICS by ARISTOTLE. [MENTION=9627]Xann, [MENTION=5223]MDP2525[/MENTION], [MENTION=25377]SearchingforPeace[/MENTION]. Below are three pictures that represent this great country.

IN ALL SERIOUSNESS DO WHAT YOU BELIEVE IS BEST, I HAVE A NOSE MAY USE IT LATER IF I SEE YOU THREE AT MY DOORSTEPS WITH TORCHES AND PITCHFORKS.


I'm not sure you realise that all the venom you are spewing is misdirected. Many people here have read those books and do see 'the evil' in most of what you say... however... and it's a big HOWEVER.... few people does not a nation make. Think on it.
 

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You know its going to be a bad day when you get quoted by multiple INTJs.

What I was trying to say is that traditionally our education seems to provide better foundation than general American education which is very job oriented. However once that level is done we try to specialize people as well.

I understand that; but my point was that economic realities changed the shape of higher education in The States, do you imagine that Croatia is destined for another fate? I think you mentioned in another thread a spiralling debt. Which having a look: Sweet baby Jesus; it's climbed from 30% to 90% of GDP since the recession. Higher education is always one of the first things cut in any economic downturn. While at the same time the quality and quantity of graduates is suppose to remain the same. The end result is an education based around the needs of an employer. Could you also make it a well rounded education on top? Certainly with another couple of years and the financial backing. But for cash-strapped universities and zero external incentive, without a huge overhaul of the world's education system it's unlikely to happen.

I don't hate American at all as many people do and I don't think their power is completely undeserved, however over the last 30 years they have started a number of pretty dangerous anti-intellectual trends that are now spreading across the world. With potentally very serious consequences, for them and the rest of the world. (and that is actually what I was trying to express with my post)

I also find the anti-intellectual trends worrying; but at this stage it seems to be global (Fear breeds fear scenario). I blame it more on internet enabling various cycles of stupidity.

As for hate....... to be brutally honest it does seem as though you have some deep seated anger issues with the US. I cannot think of a post you've made outside of personal ones that isn't disparaging high minded rhetoric about the foibles of The States. And surely you can't spend that much time writing those incredibly long posts of yours, without it being important on both a mental and emotional level.

Please don't feel the need to expand or explain on this. I'm commenting on it; because if you're wondering why people are potentially avoiding you, maybe they're seeing it the same way I am.



I suppose that is why they have typically run rings around us in math and science, especially theoretical fields?

Are you joking now? Because the answer to this is well known, and I'm not entirely sure I can pick up when you joke. If you're not, as a Russian guy once said to me; “There are only two kinds of secure jobs in Russia, one is working for the Government, the other is working for the Mafia; most of time you can't tell the difference.” So the answer is where else is someone with an advanced scientific degree suppose to work that has the same stability (And potentially pay.) as a government backed job?

Whereas the theoretical fields in the States; (Well I imagine you could tell me, the theoretical fields was a bit too specific) have small numbers/budgets, aren't particularly well paying and aren't nearly as glamorous as other fields and the private sector.


Yes, we have often been ahead on the technology side, slapping things together until they actually work. That is not the same as a fundamental understanding.

Okay........this just sums up the nature of human progress. Yes from my country’s perspective you're well gungho. I presume this isn't related to Russia/the rest? I mean their space program and the case of disappearing cosmonauts. The rest is just a double up.

In any case, if you look at comparisons of students across the globe, Americans are NOT at the top. Our education system is not a source of pride for us. We can stand to learn alot from other nations, including Russia, which has different strengths.

I'm finding myself confused, at what point did I say the American school system was number one? I did and do question the validity of following the educational footsteps of ex soviet/Warsaw Pact countries; as I believe most have/are changing to match that of Western Europe. And a reaction to virtual ghosts the US is doomed, doomed I tell you, and Croatia is the best! As for looking at other educational systems that's an excellent idea; Singapore, Denmark, Germany, Australia country's ideologically similar where variables can be aligned. Perhaps I'm wrong though, perhaps Russia has a lot to offer academically........ but a system for creativity and independence? Come on that concept is objectively hilarious, I refuse to believe you didn't see how ridiculous that statement was.

That was way more effort then it was worth; because you're both INTJ and a part of you will want to drag this out for the next hundred pages or so, I'm conceding defeat. Also because I'm debating people in a thread that's about the soul crushing conformity to smile.

Also I think we all know that the OP hasn't hit his stride yet, can you imagine the thread for when he stubs his toe? It will be his Mona Lisa.
 

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Someone casts "smalltalk" and you lose your train of thought; you are distracted. You have to stop or slow your pace and pay attention to them for at least long enough to satisfy their social itch so you can move on. It is like having to pick up a glove that you dropped, or worse, a piece of litter.

It may not take alot of energy to reciprocate a superficial "nicety" in the moment. Its greater cost comes in what it disrupts. I don't mind the interruption when someone actually needs something, but just to reply to "how are you?" No thanks. For this reason, I usually reply with unconventional answers.

Pretty much this, it's at odds with my actual work though where I have to interact with people quite frequently. I do however identify myself as extravert, but that style of interaction where the conversation is just the most banal it can possibly be is such a distraction and a bit draining.

And even though my work (well one of my jobs) can be said to have a social nature, the truth is I operate better when I am ignoring the people I'm serving, shut them out, and then focus on the processes.
 

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You know its going to be a bad day when you get quoted by multiple INTJs.

I understand that; but my point was that economic realities changed the shape of higher education in The States, do you imagine that Croatia is destined for another fate? I think you mentioned in another thread a spiralling debt. Which having a look: Sweet baby Jesus; it's climbed from 30% to 90% of GDP since the recession. Higher education is always one of the first things cut in any economic downturn. While at the same time the quality and quantity of graduates is suppose to remain the same. The end result is an education based around the needs of an employer. Could you also make it a well rounded education on top? Certainly with another couple of years and the financial backing. But for cash-strapped universities and zero external incentive, without a huge overhaul of the world's education system it's unlikely to happen.


I also find the anti-intellectual trends worrying; but at this stage it seems to be global (Fear breeds fear scenario). I blame it more on internet enabling various cycles of stupidity.

As for hate....... to be brutally honest it does seem as though you have some deep seated anger issues with the US. I cannot think of a post you've made outside of personal ones that isn't disparaging high minded rhetoric about the foibles of The States. And surely you can't spend that much time writing those incredibly long posts of yours, without it being important on both a mental and emotional level.

Please don't feel the need to expand or explain on this. I'm commenting on it; because if you're wondering why people are potentially avoiding you, maybe they're seeing it the same way I am.


I will comment back if you don't mind.

Maybe you didn't saw the thread but I am actually paroding my own country much more deeply than the States. The truth is that when I take big five test I get extra low results on agreeableness and on MBTI function tests I think it never happened that Fe wasn't my weakest function. Therefore what you are seeing is me just being me and since this is American forum USA gets its own share.



Regarding the debt thing. The problem is not in the education, the problem is the government got sucked in many deals that are financially bad. (highways and railway systems are obvious example) Also few years back we had so corrupt government that it seem that other EU countries requested leaving of our prime minister as we were joining the EU. This theory was later "debunked" but the fact is that Prime minister that was in complete control suddenly left for no reason and it was never explained why. Later it turned out that he did gambled away at least one entire annual GDP, was heavily into corruption and he was even a producer in porn industry at one point in life. Therefore once they tried to arrest him they had to chase him around the highways while his daughter was with him in the car. If you place theatre manager as a prime minister I guess the only thing you can really expect is drama. :D



Therefore the surge in debt is mostly the consequence that others had to cover his nonsense. However since we are driffting towards modern western values we also got quite a number of private bussines parasites living out at the expense of the budget, plus foreign corporations did pretty good job in destroying local economy. However Croatia and USA are totally different countries and they are hard to compare at face value. Over the last 100 years we changed 6 political systems, country was 3 times destroyed in a war and we changed 7 currencies (if I didn't overlook something). Therefore if you judge by American values we shoudn't even exist since this is unsurvibale. While people here actually expect that the goverment and entire social order will crash and debt will be restarted basically, here government crashes are like bussines cycles. What is one of the extra reasons why we sometimes can produce extra competent people, since people know that they can't really depend on the system so they educate themselves to a higher degree than would be reasonable to expect under the circumstance. In USA everything is so structured that most people don't learn much outside of school system (or perhaps their job) since this system is designed for that and learning should be done there, while different things should be done outside of such systems. In USA everthing is so much more black and white. (no pun intended)


Next to the USA we are complete chaos, but with a number of hidden strenghts. Something like STJ vs. NFP
 

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I will comment back if you don't mind.

Maybe you didn't saw the thread but I am actually paroding my own country much more deeply than the States. The truth is that when I take big five test I get extra low results on agreeableness and on MBTI function tests I think it never happened that Fe wasn't my weakest function. Therefore what you are seeing is me just being me and since this is American forum USA gets its own share.



Regarding the debt thing. The problem is not in the education, the problem is the government got sucked in many deals that are financially bad. (highways and railway systems are obvious example) Also few years back we had so corrupt government that it seem that other EU countries requested leaving of our prime minister as we were joining the EU. This theory was later "debunked" but the fact is that Prime minister that was in complete control suddenly left for no reason and it was never explained why. Later it turned out that he did gambled away at least one entire annual GDP, was heavily into corruption and he was even a producer in porn industry at one point in life. Therefore once they tried to arrest him they had to chase him around the highways while his daughter was with him in the car. If you place theatre manager as a prime minister I guess the only thing you can really expect is drama. :D



Therefore the surge in debt is mostly the consequence that others had to cover his nonsense. However since we are driffting towards modern western values we also got quite a number of private bussines parasites living out at the expense of the budget, plus foreign corporations did pretty good job in destroying local economy. However Croatia and USA are totally different countries and they are hard to compare at face value. Over the last 100 years we changed 6 political systems, country was 3 times destroyed in a war and we changed 7 currencies (if I didn't overlook something). Therefore if you judge by American values we shoudn't even exist since this is unsurvibale. While people here actually expect that the goverment and entire social order will crash and debt will be restarted basically, here government crashes are like bussines cycles. What is one of the extra reasons why we sometimes can produce extra competent people, since people know that they can't really depend on the system so they educate themselves to a higher degree than would be reasonable to expect under the circumstance. In USA everything is so structured that most people don't learn much outside of school system (or perhaps their job) since this system is designed for that and learning should be done there, while different things should be done outside of such systems. In USA everthing is so much more black and white. (no pun intended)


Next to the USA we are complete chaos, but with a number of hidden strenghts. Something like STJ vs. NFP

Well holy shit, another Croat.
 

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Didn't we already talked about both of us being Croats on this forum ? (I believe we did)

I don't remember. Anyways, Zivili!

I'm an ethnic Croat but from the U.S. You're actually from over there so I won't pretend we're on the same footing as far as being Croatian goes. :p
 

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I don't remember. Anyways, Zivili!

Živili. :D


We started that topic few months ago but we never went further into details. Therefore I was thinking that "this is it". Anyway if you don't remember I am trully from Croatia, I am not one of our quite numerous diaspora Croats scattered all over the world.
 

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I'm an ethnic Croat but from the U.S. You're actually from over there so I won't pretend we're on the same footing as far as being Croatian goes. :p


Ok, because I have some Slovenian and Hungarian genes and therefore I am not 100% "stereotypical Croat" either. :)
 

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Živili. :D


We started that topic few months ago but we never went further into details. Therefore I was thinking that "this is it". Anyway if you don't remember I am trully from Croatia, I am not one of our quite numerous diaspora Croats scattered all over the world.

What part of Croatia? And yeah I think its evident that there are more Croats in the diaspora than in Croatia ( or the Croatian community in BiH). There is a mentality difference too I've noticed. Ironically diaspora people seem more ideologically patriotic about Croatia but less practical about it because they don't all understand the realities facing Croats everyday in Croatia.
 

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Ok, because I have some Slovenian and Hungarian genes and therefore I am not 100% "stereotypical Croat" either. :)

Meh, we are not a homogenous people. All of us have some kind of mixture. The vast majority of my roots come from the Western Hercegovina region ( contrary to popular belief about people from over there I'm not an extremist, lol). I also have some distant Czech and Ukrainian ancestry. :shrug:
 

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What part of Croatia? And yeah I think its evident that there are more Croats in the diaspora than in Croatia ( or the Croatian community in BiH). There is a mentality difference too I've noticed. Ironically diaspora people seem more ideologically patriotic about Croatia but less practical about it because they don't all understand the realities facing Croats everyday in Croatia.


My familiy is from around Central Croatia, however I personally live in Zagreb my entire life. I am aware of this factor, for diaspora Croatia is some far lost ideal and even if you ever come here as a tourist you will probably have great time. However actually living here is something else entirely. On this forum in the relationship subforum you are my "twilight thread" that talks about me living is Croatia, and I have the courage to say that most of the stuff that writes there is pretty much downright crazy. In other words I rant on the internet because here people went so crazy that they no longer see the apsurd of our daily lives and therefore I attack everything that might lead into the mess I watch everyday by living here. :)
 

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Meh, we are not a homogenous people. All of us have some kind of mixture. The vast majority of my roots come from the Western Hercegovina region ( contrary to popular belief about people from over there I'm not an extremist, lol). I also have some distant Czech and Ukrainian ancestry. :shrug:


Of course, these parts saw too much mixing for any group to stay clean, especially since we redo borders every few decaded in this corner of the world. However this is funny thing actually, because my family sees my determined and somewhat bossy nature and wonders "how in Earth we managed to rise someone with Hercegovina mentality", especially since we have no one in the family from those parts. It is a joke but I am much much more thick skinned than my family, what is probably because my elementary school years were early 90s ... and in that time Croatia was trully a mess.
 

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Of course, these parts saw too much mixing for any group to stay clean, especially since we redo borders every few decaded in this corner of the world. However this is funny thing actually, because my family sees my determined and somewhat bossy nature and wonders "how in Earth we managed to rise someone with Hercegovina mentality", especially since we have no one in the family from those parts. It is a joke but I am much much more thick skinned than my family, what is probably because my elementary school years were early 90s ... and in that time Croatia was trully a mess.

Are you INTJ?
 

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Yeap, but I am more of a xNTJ actually. (and I can test as eNTJ sometimes)

I'm quite certain I'm an ENTP but INTJ seems viable when I consider the functions. I relate to the Ni focus and the Te objectivity a lot.
 

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Title should be changed to Why aren't Americans so fake?

Post interest would go from 0 to 100 real quick. :D
 

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I'm quite certain I'm an ENTP but INTJ seems viable when I consider the functions. I relate to the Ni focus and the Te objectivity a lot.

Well ENTP and INTJ are basically the reversed versions of each other. Same arrangement but reversed in focus.


Title should be changed to Why aren't Americans so fake?

Post interest would go from 0 to 100 real quick. :D


The problem is that plenty of Americans are ok, but some parts of American mainstream are just "OMG zone". Therefore then you just judge culture from the outside you can insult people since you have a limited access to individuals, even if overal culture in many parts is something you don't want to associate yourself. I understand this since my country has a similar problem, on indivudual level everything is mostly fine, but when you put as all togather ... *chaos*.
 
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