[INFJ] Are INFJs "sexy"?

[highlander]

I'm curious about this because the question has come up about about other types.

 

[1487610420]

What are the poll options?

 

[21%]

The poll says 'INFP'.

 

[Evee]

Voted yes.

 

[INTP]

Some of them are, some not. But if you look at them and other types from purely an stereotypical point of view, they are well above average of all types, because of this mysterious aura that they have and im not sure if its just a coincidence that i got this view of them, but they seem to be submissive kinks really often. I think its about the nature willing to please that makes the submissiveness and inferior Se easily leads to kinkiness.. Not that a submissive kink is some ultimate turn on for me, but..

 

[meowington]

inferior Se easily leads to kinkiness..

Never thought about it that way, but I do have inferior Se...and I'm somewhat kinky
Apart from anyting sexual, I'm very often appalled by normality. Where's the soul in that ? that sort of thinking.

 

[violett]

Yes and extremely cute when jealous

 

[Mane]

I am not sure if "sexy" is the correct word - we are talking about personality here while the term sexy carries a lot of associations with visual appeal - so I would rather use sexual (Although it's possible that an advantage in self discipline does help them keep a better appearance over time).

Assuming they are typed correctly, then the couple of INFJs I know are very sexual.

In bed there's a definite openness to explore and try new things with a clear preference for the submissive, though not completely loose - rather contained within a framework of what they view as dignified. When confident there's an attitude of almost playful arrogance that views the self as a prize - "come and get me if you can, I am not easily impressed".

There's a strong open willingness for sex, at least I haven't seen it used by one as a weapon or trade. There is a guiding honesty in regards to orgasms, though not so much in regards to dislikes (sometimes not telling you when they don't like something and just waiting for you to figure it out). With the one I've known intimately we would both often get off to each other's orgasms - It didn't matter who would reach it first - which might be common for men but I don't think it is as common for women as it was for her.

On a side note:

Having experienced sexual trauma in my childhood, I found relations with her... healing.

 

[Ene]

I think "sexy" is completely subjective. You know, in the eye of the beholder kind of thing.

 

[hjgbujhghg]

Yeah gimme that sexy little Ni

 

[Fidelia]

Appealing, maybe. But I don't know if others would describe me as sexy. I think there is a definite sexual element to INFJs, but that maybe different than a more overt sexiness?

 

[á´…eparted]

Nope. There's the opposite of what I find sexy.

Unsurprising as I find the most appeal in ESTP's.

 

[highlander]

I think they probably are.

 

[Opal]

I'm 87.5% sure of it.

 

[SD45T-2]

I don't think I know any female INFJs IRL. The only person I know who seems likely to be an INFJ is a guy, so I don't think about him on those terms.

Appealing, maybe. But I don't know if others would describe me as sexy.

You certainly come across as pleasant and thoughtful, which is appealing.

As for the other INFJs I know on here, I think I would describe [MENTION=9273]Vasilisa[/MENTION] as elegant, intriguing, and nurturing. [MENTION=5159]Lexicon[/MENTION] sort of defies description.

 

[Eluded_One]

Yeah gimme that sexy little Ni

You called it little. You're getting thrown off the sexy people boat.

 

[Lexicon]

I'm not voting, but personally, no, I don't find Feeler men particularly 'sexy' in general.
It's in the eye of the beholder, of course.

 

[meowington]

In my life experience : some women seem to be particulary attracted to me at face value or when they first meet me. Even mesmerized. Lots of people have told me there's something very enigmatic about me, especially my eyes and the way I look or stare (definitely Ni-related). In all my previous relationships that's what women liked about me.
But a lot of times women lose interest once they get to know the droopier, geeky side of me (or the fact that I can act stupid because of bad extraverted sensing, or my second nature to doubt everything). Sometimes the magic gets lost because of this.

 

[hjgbujhghg]

You called it little. You're getting thrown off the sexy people boat.

Oh no, I am gonna be drown in endless river of celibate and asexuality

 

[Riva]

Are we talking about infj males or females?

Infj females i have noticed are beautiful. A majority of them seem to be slender and tall (taller than 5' 6' and from what i have noticed the tallest females taken as an average) and usually have feminine/beautiful features.

Therefore word i would use is NOT sexy, it's beautiful. Sexiness requires intensity (and curves) that infjs lack. But luckily for them the fashion magazines these days glorify slender, tall, beautiful women (infjs traits i've mentioned above) upto a level that has surpassed curves in desired levels in women esp for magazines.

Reg males:

Haven't met nor noticed many. The ones i have seem to be average looking. Therewas one of them who was quite tall and had soft yet manly feautures. However i am not sure whether he is a infj or isfj.