It's not perfect. I'm an Ni-dom; I am limited in what I am able to do. I am simply trying to improve upon the skills I have and to make the best of it.
I like your attitude.
Thanks for sharing that example, Hard. The problem I am having is that I think every human being can relate to this example of feeling. So, is it about frequency, do you have these feelings all the time? Or, is it that when anyone feels this sensation it is Ni?
Appreciate any extra thoughts you might have on that. Or another example?
I'd also be curious to hear.
Metaperspective.
More?
The orientation leads to a tendency to try to tip things over in an attempt to figure out what's "really" going on. Sometimes, that orientation digs deep and finds gold beneath the surface; at other times, it mistakes dirt and gravel for gold.
It may lead to an attraction to symbols and signs due to the fact that they represent something--that there's something going on with them, almost by definition. It may also lead to confidence in a future trajectory, as the thing that's 'going on' often points to a process or trend.
It's often a subconscious and instinctual tendency, like anyone's natural orientation, and so it can give a "gut feeling" in its own way.
So every function in the dominant position is a subconscious and instinctual tendency producing gut feelings? Is this what you meant? That would kind of make sense, I find the idea of associating Ni and only Ni with unconscious automaticity - that is, mastery of something practice - a bad idea.
For example, I find my logical reasoning has very similar automaticity. And it's definitely about logic, not intuition, as the result it produces is a logical picture. I can even visually imagine a picture of it and that also only has logical elements in it. Yes it does make it very abstract but it's still a visual picture, summing up stuff so well and elegantly.
In Malcolm Gladwell’s
Blink, he explains “
thin-slicingâ€: how answers/insight can surface instantly from the unconscious and how/when to trust it. I think it’s excellent instruction for how/when to trust Ni.
Hey if you get to give us a few details on how/when to trust Ni insights, I'll be really curious to hear!
I think Fe actually pushes me to ignore it when/where I can’t effectively explain it- for the reason Hard mentioned (credibility) but also because the urge to be fair often overrides the urge to give it much weight where I can't effectively explain it. It’s taken me years to learn that ignoring it isn’t really an option- it never goes away and only gets stronger (ultimately becomes more of a problem) the more I try to ignore it (except on those occasions where it came from misunderstanding, in which case it does go away- but that’s more the exception than the rule).
I kind of relate to the fairness part of that. :/ I try to be fair so hard and explain my stance untiringly and all that and then the other party doesn't.
And I do sometimes get a feeling about certain attitudes of the other person's but I try to ignore it just like you and yep it just gets stronger. In quite a few other cases I don't really focus on this at all though, so no feeling of the intentions either or it doesn't get too conscious, it gets dismissively pushed back into the unconscious too easily by me. And then later BAM! stuff happens... and I wish I hadn't dismissed it so easily, the dismissal happens on a subconscious level too, btw.
In Gladwell’s book, he explains that when we question initial assessments- that’s where things can go wrong. We start confabulating reasons for why we think we know it, and that can lead us astray because we believe the confabulations. [I’ll try to come back with a better explanation later if/when I have time- but I second the point I think Werebudgie is trying to make. While I think being able to explain how we got from A to Q to other people is important, I also think there’s value in learning to trust something is *probably* true even when we can’t immediately explain it. It's a hard call- because I've dealt with batshit Ni in others (where they just *believe* their incredibly wrong insight) and I loathe the idea of being 'that person' myself.]
That thin slices thing, it sort of sounds like a way of judging, the wikipedia article even uses the word judge. I understang with jungian theory it's not judging but quite honestly this use of terminology is very confusing. If you make an initial assessment and are instantly convinced it's correct, that's a judgement in my book. How in Jung's view could it not be a judgement?
Most often, that stuff either won't make sense to other people or will be pulled by them into being a judging narrative to the point where the narrative takes center stage and the actual information is distorted beyond usefulness for guiding action (when for me, the point of the words would be a "best description at the moment/best I can come up with in words right now" for functional communication, and not a judging narrative).
How do you know all those people "pull" it into a judging narrative? See, you thought I was "judging", while I was exactly with it like you describe yourself : "best description at the moment/best I can come up with in words right now". Meaning, ready to be transformed further if needed.
I haven't dealt with batshit Ni in others, but I have a similar, though probably not identical, loathing related to not wanting to be crazy, deluded etc. It can be a very powerful self-policing function IMO.
See this was my point exactly in the previous dicussions: Ni isn't crazy.
Apparently you also do not want to see Ni as crazy... So why did you get upset about my point? .... Rhetorical question of course as I know you hate discussing stuff with me for god knows what reason.
This is interesting, to be sure, and I know there are times when I have not listened to my initial gut instinct, and have regretted it, only to learn later I should have paid attention to that, and made a mess of rationalizing it after the fact, denying myself/something.
However. I can throw out an equal number of times where I've thought/felt something, and been wrong.
Heh yeah. Have you ever noticed a difference in the intuitive feelings that proved to be correct vs the ones that proved to be wrong?
I don't have them all the time but I've observed them and so I can kind of put them on a "scale", at one end of the scale it's a very strong feeling and I trust it (I will still flesh it out more concretely though if I can and I usually attempt this and usually succeed). The other end of the scale, it's a much weaker feeling, like it's really hard to grasp it and hold on to it. And I will trust the weak ones much less, in the sense that it's easier to dismiss them back into the unconscious.
I haven't performed a refined analysis of the relationship between the strength of the feeling and the correctness of it but I believe the two are not the same. A weak feeling can still be very much correct and I'm not even sure if there's a difference in likelihood of it being correct compared to the strong ones.
As for how often they're correct, well, if the feeling is related to an area I'm particularly good in, they're usually correct. If not good in it, I will not really have the feelings or hunches much.
I've also had random hunches claiming random BS about what will happen etc. This is very rare though. And it's pretty much always wrong and I pretty much always know it's wrong. It feels like a "fabricated" hunch to me. It feels too magical and sometimes even superstitious and indeed it is. I can always tell, yup.
Btw when I say feeling for me it's not as truly visceral as to actually feel a physical reaction in my body, that's happened before but it's always a reaction to something else, not to an actual intuitive feeling.
Also note that some of these intuitive-like feelings actually end in a logical result as I already mentioned above.
But, then, I don't identify with Ni-dom-ness any longer. Perhaps Ni doms have a better track record at this? I wouldn't know. Though... it's tempting to look at all of the INxJ's in the world (well, all people...any type can do it), with their beliefs of what is true, and extrapolate from that that the act of believing one has the truth doesn't really mean much... not all of them are right, ha...
Lol true
I don't think Ni can be understood intellectually since doing so requires some kind of reasoning.Ni are sort of like the Zen koans which required the subject to suspend all kind of reasoning and instead reconcile contradictions in order to reach an intuitive understanding of the nature of reality. Jung stated that introverted irrational functions(Si,Ni) were the hardest to explain to others since it stand in glaring contrast to our current mode of operation that values logical and rationalistic processes.
Depends on how you define "intellectual understanding". Understanding can also just be a perception of how things are. And I guess to me it would be intellectual when this is an abstract perception or a perception of something that's hard to understand (logically or otherwise).
This is always my reaction in these threads about Ni. All of a sudden, Se & Si seem massively more interesting & exotic.
What's so exotic about Se to you?!

I'm curious.
It's interesting how people often apply this "difficult to grasp" aspect of Pi to Ni, and less so to Si. People are very comfortable accepting simplistic explanations of Si (perhaps because Si is more common in people), but seem very disappointed when Ni is explained simply. Yet time & again, I see Ni-doms explain themselves rather simply. And other people (including me) are like, "huh, that's IT?". I suppose it's because the Ni type is often touted as something so mysterious & complex, yet it jives more with my experience of them that there's a kind internal blankness there.
Isn't everyone "blank" internally?
OK, sure, I know some people are pretty verbal. Me, I'm not verbal much. When I think it's usually in a non-coded way, not coded in words, not coded in images. You could call it blank, sure. Though I don't think I'm Ni-dom or Si-dom. I sometimes like to test people by asking them "can you think without words?"

Some people will say NO, some will say yes. Lol so funny, the differences you can discover about people's minds.
Indeed. It seems like we're conflating two definitions of intuition here.
I mean, I can touch a scratch lottery ticket and tell if it's a winner. I'm at a cash register buying something unrelated, no intention to buy a ticket, see a ticket, know it's a winner. Touch it, and it feels like a winner. When I know it, it is. (Wish that happened for a biggie win lol!)
An Ni user would say it's Ni though?
Above in my categorization of hunches, I called this one the magical version. And I said it never works, for me anyway. If it once worked for you, you got lucky. I wouldn't call this proper refined Ni.
Yes, I may note that Ni users have this detached perspective of the self(I certainly do). There's no definite solid self, just a dynamic-liquid process that change from one moment to the next. Ji users on the other hand(Fi, Ti) seem to have a more firm grasp that there's an definite essence inside that anchors them to some sort of an identity. INPs out there could perhaps shed some light on this matter, these are just my observations.
Do you really mean that, Ti-doms having a firm grasp of self? Ti is often described as having no self. I'm sure Fi does have one though.
I certainly don't have a static self myself and I might even be Ti-dom (ISTP). Or at least I feel like a Ti-dom in some situations. It's not related to having any kind of sense of self whatsoever, for me.
Same goes for Ne and Se. And that's not even a value judgment. I love Se. Some times. But it is undeniably more simplistic than Ne.
(well, until you get into how Ni subconsciously fuels it, cuz that part is actually kinda cray cray)
Well, get into it.

We are in the Ni thread after all
Or I guess a bit part of it is making sure I’ve spent at least a little bit of effort considering what the other point of view might be, so that I’m not throwing a lot of emotional work at someone (making them do the work of explaining to me why their position is understandable- when it would have taken only moments for me to figure that out on my own).
I really like your position. I guess I always have the patience to explain my position (and in turn, hear the other person's), it's just that quite a few other people don't have patience to hear it or even consider the idea of listening, let alone consider the idea of explaining their own position instead of just giving up too fast.
What I could learn better though is, how to figure out some positions of people in some cases, where it's possible to put it together from the data available. Really cool you try to do that.
Do you feel this limits your Ni too much though? Does it never turn out that it was a good idea trying to figure out what the other person's position REALLY was?
I do think I've always felt a push within myself to make sure I'm making sense (as others have already described).
I like this too. I like attempts at communication instead of just immediately judging the other party and consequently giving up. Oh yes it can require energy and patience. I don't mind.
Speculation:
I finished playing chess with some people a few hours ago, and I think I realized how Ni operates.
Heh [MENTION=15886]superunknown[/MENTION] already explained what it is before I could get to it haha
Here's a slightly lamer anecdote that reinforces your point: I play first-person shooters very competitively (chess-like in many ways given solid muscle memory), and my understanding is thorough enough I feel the path of least resistance/most reward, so to speak. Cracks in the opposing team's positioning and their implications are often immediately clear. Chance is obviously a bigger player on a dynamic board, but the sort of real-time strategic foresight seems parallel.
This is usually attributed to Se.
