I did indeed mean what is in bold.
Can you elaborate on how shame creates wars?

this was supposed to be the "short version" ha ha, didn't happen.
We feel bad about ourselves, we question our self worth (which is innate, there is no need to strive to earn it...you already are worthy....), and then our ego's have to make up for it.
The ego manifests itself in many ways.
One of them is in thinking there's not enough to go around. It's a bullshit concept. People just look at the negative and pass on their negative thinking to their children (on the small scale)
Large scale....greed. People think having more makes them more worthy...but it's a bottomless pit. There's never enough.
It just all falls back on what we've been passed on for years. We don't take responsibility for ourselves in the situations that we can. We are domesticated to think there's something wrong with us (there's the shame), therefore play the victim our whole lives (there's the not taking or passing on responsibility part) Some more than others...of course.
We are hurt by our parents cause they shame us from acting the ways they don't want us to act. (usually what their subjective definition of "evil" is....you know...probably something like not sharing, hitting, taking without asking, etc....we all do these things....there's no denying it. The more you deny and shame for shit like this, the more it gets suppressed and manifests later in unhealthy ways...later down the road in adult life. And the more problems you have as a kid the more your subconscious spends the rest of you life trying to re-live and solve those problems. Hence the reason why a girl can walk into a room filled with about 40 men, and pick the ONLY one that is an alcoholic....just because her dad was an alcoholic....so the same goes for murderers....they probably have something mentally wrong with them...but along with that, they have most likely been craving intimacy and control...so they get those things by killing someone, cause that's one of the biggest ways to get those things...stuff like that)
Then we despise our parents after years of the same bs...
Then we play victim and seek revenge.
It could be anybody's story...
It actually IS everybody's story. In one way or another...Some more extreme than others.....of course
Good and evil are two sides of the same coin.
The more we try to bring about one side...the more a shadow forms....
And to bring that back into typology...lol let's just say that you're an E5...and your parents think you should be more outgoing...that judgment or "evil" of not being outgoing enough...is subjective......
There's nothing wrong with someone not being outgoing.
So in my opinion....we shame what we think the "in crowd" would shame. So that we have children that fit in.
This covers both nature and nurture.
So again, your answer is: our domestication process. It's detrimental. The fact that people think that there are "evil" things, is detrimental in itself.

but nobody likes to be told any of this...so I'd keep it on the dl. Even me. I will admit that I find things to be evil...and don't like them....and if someone was to tell me that it was not evil...that it was neutral....and I'm just passing judgment....I would probably get annoyed as well. Cause, you see, I too, have been domesticated lol.

(Nobody likes to be told their wrong. That would be a form of shame btw..) and that would make them feel unlovable and unworthy.
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