Haphazard
Don't Judge Me!
- Joined
- Apr 14, 2008
- Messages
- 6,704
- MBTI Type
- ENFJ
Hello.
I've decided to throw myself to the wolves today. I sure hope you enjoy psychoanalyzing me
From my understanding of Myers-Briggs, I've thought of myself as INTJ, but I noticed that the INTJ forum sucks. I can think of a few reasons why the INTJ forum is like this:
1) People on INTJ-fourm are immature (likely)
2) There is a mix of people on the forum that are not INTJ but rather fancy themselves INTJ, distilling a caricature of how INTJs 'should' act, that I find particularly obnoxious. (likely)
3) Rather, the distillation of numbers of INTJs there have created an efficient, while extremely boring, atmosphere (very likely).
4) I am not INTJ myself but rather a type that is incompatible with the atmosphere that INTJ-fourms creates (???)
Or some combination of the four.
Well, let me put down a smattering of things about myself so the little worker bees here can get started:
-I'm relatively withdrawn in real life. In fact, in casual situations where more than one person is paying attention to me, I tend to shut up very tightly. However, if I'm talking to only one person, I can talk a man's ear off, and maybe even say something clever once in a while.
-Most of the time at home I want nothing more than to be left alone. People talking to me when I'm not in the mood for talk will likely get a very nasty person on the other end of the conversation. My responses will be very terse with the intent of getting other people to leave. Unfortunately, this usually activates the "ooh, poor baby, what's wrong?" reflex in people which makes me even worse.
-Deadlines stress me like no other. Because it's the end of the school year, deadlines are fast, fast approaching, and it's brought me into panic and I don't know why, because I know that I can succeed.
-With emotional responses I tend to pay more attention to physical response than the emotion. I'm more likely to say that I feel sick rather than I'm upset.
-Talking about my own emotions makes me more upset than when I started. I look towards the root causes of all the problems and end up seeing these huge powers smashing into each other, causing the issue I'm talking about... more or less the only way to comfort me is to tell me to do what I already know that I need to do to solve the problem. Most people around me do not grasp that and find me very frustrating to deal with when I'm upset.
-I have no personal vendetta against the world.
-When I think, I usually think of the best way to get what I want while making the fewest waves. The last thing I want to do is to be bothered.
-I often find profuse sympathy where it's not wanted.
-School is boring and difficult. Most everything is based on rote memorization, and I've trusted my ability to figure things out mostly through school, but sometimes it just doesn't cut it. I've somehow managed to get decent grades all through school and a reputation as a 'smart kid,' but generally not as arrogant as a lot of the other 'smart kids'.
-I love to read. My favorite books are satires or dark humor, such as Slaughterhouse-Five by Kurt Vonnegut. I also like absurdist stuff like Waiting for Godot. I generally don't like stuff that broods on itself too often -- case and point, Frankenstein.
-I love to write. I'm great at coming up with ideas, but whenever I start writing anything longer, I end up finding plotholes or generally losing the will to write, believing that it doesn't make any sense, and end up starting something new.
-I can have a hard time sleeping at night if I'm not completely exhausted. Thoughts tend to keep me awake, be they interesting ones or stress-induced ones.
-During disputes, I either stay out of it, or if it's with people who aren't above me in position, I'll try to be a clown and stop it. However, if I know that I can sort out any facts, I'll throw those facts out. Usually the facts fall on deaf ears, though.
-To cheer someone up, I'll try to make them laugh, unless I think it's wildly inappropriate. If that's the case, I'll just freeze up instead, which doesn't help anyone.
-When it comes to friends, I rarely ever make the first move. However, I still have friends. The types of people who don't immediately clique up with others tend to be drawn to me. I've met my best friends this way, but I've also met some people that I would not wish onto anybody this way.
-I don't usually appear very organized. My room is very messy, but I can usually find where things are within the mess. If anybody moves my mess, I can't find anything, and I freak out.
-I play the viola, though I'm not very good at it. I do a lot of sketching, but I wouldn't say it looks artistic at all. One thing that I'm very good at, though, is knitting and crochet. I've designed a few patterns, but most of the time I alter patterns that already exist.
So let's have fun with this. Please give justification for response and whatever. Keep in mind that I'm only fifteen, so this stuff isn't set in stone for me. But you know, MBTI is interesting.
So, everybody, have at me.
I've decided to throw myself to the wolves today. I sure hope you enjoy psychoanalyzing me
From my understanding of Myers-Briggs, I've thought of myself as INTJ, but I noticed that the INTJ forum sucks. I can think of a few reasons why the INTJ forum is like this:
1) People on INTJ-fourm are immature (likely)
2) There is a mix of people on the forum that are not INTJ but rather fancy themselves INTJ, distilling a caricature of how INTJs 'should' act, that I find particularly obnoxious. (likely)
3) Rather, the distillation of numbers of INTJs there have created an efficient, while extremely boring, atmosphere (very likely).
4) I am not INTJ myself but rather a type that is incompatible with the atmosphere that INTJ-fourms creates (???)
Or some combination of the four.
Well, let me put down a smattering of things about myself so the little worker bees here can get started:
-I'm relatively withdrawn in real life. In fact, in casual situations where more than one person is paying attention to me, I tend to shut up very tightly. However, if I'm talking to only one person, I can talk a man's ear off, and maybe even say something clever once in a while.
-Most of the time at home I want nothing more than to be left alone. People talking to me when I'm not in the mood for talk will likely get a very nasty person on the other end of the conversation. My responses will be very terse with the intent of getting other people to leave. Unfortunately, this usually activates the "ooh, poor baby, what's wrong?" reflex in people which makes me even worse.
-Deadlines stress me like no other. Because it's the end of the school year, deadlines are fast, fast approaching, and it's brought me into panic and I don't know why, because I know that I can succeed.
-With emotional responses I tend to pay more attention to physical response than the emotion. I'm more likely to say that I feel sick rather than I'm upset.
-Talking about my own emotions makes me more upset than when I started. I look towards the root causes of all the problems and end up seeing these huge powers smashing into each other, causing the issue I'm talking about... more or less the only way to comfort me is to tell me to do what I already know that I need to do to solve the problem. Most people around me do not grasp that and find me very frustrating to deal with when I'm upset.
-I have no personal vendetta against the world.
-When I think, I usually think of the best way to get what I want while making the fewest waves. The last thing I want to do is to be bothered.
-I often find profuse sympathy where it's not wanted.
-School is boring and difficult. Most everything is based on rote memorization, and I've trusted my ability to figure things out mostly through school, but sometimes it just doesn't cut it. I've somehow managed to get decent grades all through school and a reputation as a 'smart kid,' but generally not as arrogant as a lot of the other 'smart kids'.
-I love to read. My favorite books are satires or dark humor, such as Slaughterhouse-Five by Kurt Vonnegut. I also like absurdist stuff like Waiting for Godot. I generally don't like stuff that broods on itself too often -- case and point, Frankenstein.
-I love to write. I'm great at coming up with ideas, but whenever I start writing anything longer, I end up finding plotholes or generally losing the will to write, believing that it doesn't make any sense, and end up starting something new.
-I can have a hard time sleeping at night if I'm not completely exhausted. Thoughts tend to keep me awake, be they interesting ones or stress-induced ones.
-During disputes, I either stay out of it, or if it's with people who aren't above me in position, I'll try to be a clown and stop it. However, if I know that I can sort out any facts, I'll throw those facts out. Usually the facts fall on deaf ears, though.
-To cheer someone up, I'll try to make them laugh, unless I think it's wildly inappropriate. If that's the case, I'll just freeze up instead, which doesn't help anyone.
-When it comes to friends, I rarely ever make the first move. However, I still have friends. The types of people who don't immediately clique up with others tend to be drawn to me. I've met my best friends this way, but I've also met some people that I would not wish onto anybody this way.
-I don't usually appear very organized. My room is very messy, but I can usually find where things are within the mess. If anybody moves my mess, I can't find anything, and I freak out.
-I play the viola, though I'm not very good at it. I do a lot of sketching, but I wouldn't say it looks artistic at all. One thing that I'm very good at, though, is knitting and crochet. I've designed a few patterns, but most of the time I alter patterns that already exist.
So let's have fun with this. Please give justification for response and whatever. Keep in mind that I'm only fifteen, so this stuff isn't set in stone for me. But you know, MBTI is interesting.
So, everybody, have at me.
