I wonder what the INTP/ISFP relationship would be like
I think an ISFP might like me
We have only really engaged at social events... do ISFPs ever get into a more serious sorta state 1 on 1 or do they expect the "sillyness" to continue?
Or maybe it would be a good balence...
I have an ISFP friend (she actually appears to be extraverted most of the time and I think she's close to E) and I have a sort of love/pissedoff (never really hate) relationship with her.
What I love about her
-She is bubbly and friendly
-She can be thoughtful
-Often rather empathetic
-Can have conversations with me where I spend most of the time sitting back and listening
-Creative
-Enthusiastic most of the time
What she loves about me
-I am kind to her and care about how she is feeling
-I provide a good sounding board and can carry conversation with her rather well
-Good at making her laugh with my semi-witty social commentary
-Go with the flow usually
-Often able to reach sensible conclusions
-True to myself
What I dislike about her
-Can seem VERY shallow at times
-Hyperdefensive and illogical in arguments
-Doesn't always get me and can seem cold at times
-Does NOT like to think through ideas very much before deciding on them, and can be persistent about her own ideas and values
What she dislikes about me
-Too pedantically logical
-Often oblivious
-Sometimes lacking enthusiasm, being to cautious and critical
-Not afraid to argue and bluntly disagree with her
It is a generally positive relationship and we enjoy our time together. My biggest problem with her is that she can sometimes just be SO shallow and it seems to be impossible to change her attitudes towards things (eg. She wants to marry for the money and to date people for their attractiveness, which I think is an awful attitude).