Totenkindly
@.~*virinaĉo*~.@
- Joined
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However, I had a very hard time getting past all that girlie girl fluff. But I tend to be out of the female mainstream on such things. As long as it works for people, then who am I to roll my eyes at the cutesiness.
Pretty much. It's okay to have a methodical system to handle a task if you can't do it spontaneously / it's not getting done and you are unhappy. It's all about self-empowerment.
I'm not really cutesy either. A small part of me might enjoy it, mostly it's just a distraction from learning the strategy... but if others enjoy and need it, that's fine. The cutesy bit is just a feminine bonding mechanism anyway, it's not really part of the system itself.