Asterion
Ruler of the Stars
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Should Intuitives have to adjust to a sensors way of thinking and vice verse?
I love to discuss ideas, philosophies, beliefs and all and I seem to have a knack for questioning things that normal people just don't give a shit about. These people often find my questions trivial, weird and unusual, and one of my friends told me that I cramp his style (that one hurt). I've asked some of these people how I should communicate with them, or how I can be 'normal', and after much thinking, they tell me that I should communicate in a manner that you could describe as sensing. These things that they want to discuss seem entirely trivial to me, just as much as my ideas seem trivial to them. In the same conversation, I tried to practice discussing things like a sensor, but it was rediculously obvious that I didn't care, it was like I was just faking it, and I was really.
So, my question is, do we learn to communicate to sensors on their level? Or do we just avoid them and talk to intuitives? What happens when there are intuitives and sensors in the same room? Would you talk sensory, or intuitively?
I've also discovered that I often initiate conversations in order to push them in an intuitive direction... Is there something wrong with that? I think it would introduce some balance if I could ocassionaly pick out a sensors topic and discuss something they'd want to... or perhaps even let them initiate
I just realized that I've heard that this has happened to other intuitives on this forum, hmmm , this certainly isn't an original thread.
I love to discuss ideas, philosophies, beliefs and all and I seem to have a knack for questioning things that normal people just don't give a shit about. These people often find my questions trivial, weird and unusual, and one of my friends told me that I cramp his style (that one hurt). I've asked some of these people how I should communicate with them, or how I can be 'normal', and after much thinking, they tell me that I should communicate in a manner that you could describe as sensing. These things that they want to discuss seem entirely trivial to me, just as much as my ideas seem trivial to them. In the same conversation, I tried to practice discussing things like a sensor, but it was rediculously obvious that I didn't care, it was like I was just faking it, and I was really.
So, my question is, do we learn to communicate to sensors on their level? Or do we just avoid them and talk to intuitives? What happens when there are intuitives and sensors in the same room? Would you talk sensory, or intuitively?
I've also discovered that I often initiate conversations in order to push them in an intuitive direction... Is there something wrong with that? I think it would introduce some balance if I could ocassionaly pick out a sensors topic and discuss something they'd want to... or perhaps even let them initiate
I just realized that I've heard that this has happened to other intuitives on this forum, hmmm , this certainly isn't an original thread.