ENTJs are Choleric in control. yes? They arent into micromanaging things that just dont matter (ESFJ moms? yes they do enjoy micromanaging the most mundane!).
I see ENTJs as more likely to just want to do everything themselves (not trusting others). Micromanaging seems to imply that you are constantly meddling in other peoples business.
EXACTLY! Thank you Babylon Candle! I knew I liked you more than just for your taste in books!
I don't see myself meddling in other peoples business, but sadly I do get perceived that way a LOT!
1. I don't let my family clean my kitchen because I have a certain system for where everything goes. I get very frustrated the nth time I have told some one where things go and they are not put there. It may not matter to my Ps, but I don't want to spend an extra 10 minutes searching for a needed utensil, etc. I have enough to do in a day.
2. My kids accuse me of micromanaging science/art and other school projects. But that's just because I get EXCITED about them. Now they are on their own.
3. People at my work think I butt my nose in areas that don't concern me. For example, our company hosted a seminar. After the main speaker was finished, everyone was supposed to break up into individual groups. One group looked confused as to where they were supposed to go and what they were supposed to bring with them. I looked around to see if anyone was available to help and saw that everyone was busy, so remembering what was said, I directed them to the place they were supposed to go. After they seminar they came and thanked ME for putting it on. I told them I wasn't in charge, but the people who were were NOT HAPPY.
So others might say butting in or micromanaging . . . I say, just being helpful.
Well, I agreed with the other poster, which was describing other qualities. i could see myself giving a rather vague picture of an assignment, while having quite a clear picture in my head of what I want it to be, and then get pissed if the result don't match. Which is quite bad.
Micromanagement tho would mean that I'd have to check the whole process of execution constantly...jesus...deadly boring. I'd rather develop some other new idea while other people do their work.
I HATE having to stand over someone and tell them what to do . . . but what I ABHOR is having someone make the same mistake more than twice! I get REALLY angry. On the other hand I don't think everyone is incompetent. In fact I will give them the benefit of the doubt, until they prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that they are indeed incompetent.
Case in Point: When there is trouble in my company everyone comes running to tell me because they know I'm the only one with the confidence to truthfully tell the boss what's going on. In fact, I was laid off precisely because I told the boss what she was doing wrong.
I thought I was being nice and helpful about it. Apparently she didn't feel the same way. I wish however she had taken my advice, because less than six months later she was politely asked to retire by the board who finally realized as I did that she was incompetent. I was willing to work with her, but hey, don't listen to an ENTJ at your own peril . . . .
