Wyst
lurking....
- Joined
- Jul 6, 2008
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- MBTI Type
- INFJ
- Enneagram
- 4w5
So I need to move to a new place in about 3 months. A friend of mine whom I've known for well over a year suggested we get a place together.
This ENFJ has a lot of good traits. He's caring, considerate, organized (at least on his schedule), he's open-minded, and very extroverted - always looking for something to do.
He's a bit awkward though. He's pretty obsessive and will tell me the same story over and over again even though he knows I've heard it. I think he whips himself up into a frenzy sometimes trying to squeeze each last bit of satisfaction out of whatever happened by retelling stories.
I'm not nearly as introverted as I used to be but I know that he's going to want to have people over to our apartment a lot - kinda like how the girls' apartment in Friends was where most of the show happened. This sounds like a fun idea, especially because we have a lot of the same friends.
The only thing that really makes me think twice about it, is the obsessive stuff. I hate stopping someone in the middle of a story to tell them, "We've already been through this twice". Am I too accommodating? Should I just tell him straight up? I don't see how I'll be able to survive with him and keep quiet about it...
This ENFJ has a lot of good traits. He's caring, considerate, organized (at least on his schedule), he's open-minded, and very extroverted - always looking for something to do.
He's a bit awkward though. He's pretty obsessive and will tell me the same story over and over again even though he knows I've heard it. I think he whips himself up into a frenzy sometimes trying to squeeze each last bit of satisfaction out of whatever happened by retelling stories.
I'm not nearly as introverted as I used to be but I know that he's going to want to have people over to our apartment a lot - kinda like how the girls' apartment in Friends was where most of the show happened. This sounds like a fun idea, especially because we have a lot of the same friends.
The only thing that really makes me think twice about it, is the obsessive stuff. I hate stopping someone in the middle of a story to tell them, "We've already been through this twice". Am I too accommodating? Should I just tell him straight up? I don't see how I'll be able to survive with him and keep quiet about it...