SkyborneVeggies
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- Nov 18, 2014
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- MBTI Type
- INFJ
- Enneagram
- 5w4
I've always assumed that I'm an INFJ because I feel like I definitely use Ti over Te, but the more I learn about Fi & Fe the muddier my assumptions become. Please let me know if these behaviors are Fi or Fe. Thank you all!
I am very sensitive when people are upset with me & tend towards desperation in getting them to not be angry with me anymore, even if their anger is unwarranted. I also often worry that people are upset because of something I said or did when they actually aren't.
As a child & up until the end of high school, if my parents were mad at one of my siblings or just mad in general, I would feel as though they were mad at me, even if I was in a different room & could only hear what was going on.
I like people who are genuinely eccentric, but people who pretend to be eccentric for the sake of appearing more unique really bother me & I try to avoid them.
I am nice to people I dislike & because of this, I attract clingy people who want to be friends.
I am highly affected by other people's pain, and am equally affected by people I don't know as I am by people I do know. For example, I was affected equally by hearing about my mom's coworker's son's traumatic situation as I was by my best friend’s traumatic situation. I am somewhat affected, but less so, by things I hear from the media though, so maybe this only extends up to people connected to me indirectly.
I don’t really express my emotions, & only ever have 1 or 2 confidants at a time that I tell things to. I only have a general idea of how I feel, & can’t understand the specifics until I start to put it down on paper. If I do decide to talk about my feelings, I usually mull it over for a few days & write things down, & then condense it into an outline so I can convey everything in an understandable manner.
I do the personality chameleon thing. I also tend to soften my viewpoint when expressing a disagreement so that it won’t seem so blatant.
I am very sensitive when people are upset with me & tend towards desperation in getting them to not be angry with me anymore, even if their anger is unwarranted. I also often worry that people are upset because of something I said or did when they actually aren't.
As a child & up until the end of high school, if my parents were mad at one of my siblings or just mad in general, I would feel as though they were mad at me, even if I was in a different room & could only hear what was going on.
I like people who are genuinely eccentric, but people who pretend to be eccentric for the sake of appearing more unique really bother me & I try to avoid them.
I am nice to people I dislike & because of this, I attract clingy people who want to be friends.
I am highly affected by other people's pain, and am equally affected by people I don't know as I am by people I do know. For example, I was affected equally by hearing about my mom's coworker's son's traumatic situation as I was by my best friend’s traumatic situation. I am somewhat affected, but less so, by things I hear from the media though, so maybe this only extends up to people connected to me indirectly.
I don’t really express my emotions, & only ever have 1 or 2 confidants at a time that I tell things to. I only have a general idea of how I feel, & can’t understand the specifics until I start to put it down on paper. If I do decide to talk about my feelings, I usually mull it over for a few days & write things down, & then condense it into an outline so I can convey everything in an understandable manner.
I do the personality chameleon thing. I also tend to soften my viewpoint when expressing a disagreement so that it won’t seem so blatant.