Eh ISFJ's can appear extroverted, and along with INFJ's probably have the easiest time 'transitioning'(awful way to put it), between an introverted and extroverted persona/demeanor. I think it is more likely for an ISFJ to appear extroverted than an ESFJ to appear introverted, especially to the extent you are describing.
Your enneagram is more difficult though, but ISFJ seems likely. You seem very pleasant by the way and I hope you stick around, variety is the spice of life and so on and so forth.
It seems to me that you have Si, single-solution types of systems and patterns in the real world( such as taking medicines in your bag in case of emergency). And the F seems extroverted, you talk about how you feel. Si and Fe would indicate xSFJ not xSFP.
Couple of pointers...Fi/Te often demonstrates feelings rather than speaking them out, by doing for example small touches on the forearm of the listener to emphasise a point. Do you do that at all or do you prefer to discuss how you feel in words, more Fe/Ti?
Secondly, introverts recharge alone, extroverts recharge in company, which do you do?
Oh, and if your mum is ESFJ you may have picked up some behaviours from her which actually mask how *you* truly feel...so that's something to bear in mind.
Hope this helps...
Hello [MENTION=21822]Kyora[/MENTION]
I think you may be ESFJ
The most obvious is that you are SF. The rest is not so easy.
I thought about functions then.
I believe you are using more Si than Se. I have an impression that you tend to see what’s happening as a continuation of what happened before. And I think you are sentimental.
If it’s about Fi/Fe in your posts I see more of Fe. You tend to care how you influence other people in your live and about harmony among them. Doesn’t really matter if you speak about what your feelings are or do you act to express your feelings (I think). So although you made very Fi statement• saying that greatest challenge to you is understanding your reactions, I would say that Fe is your preference.
^ That makes me think you are xSFJ. Basing on what I’ve just read more likely ESFJ who sometimes gets shy.
If it is about tritype, Good Samaritan archetype seems right. My first guess would be 296, but I think 926 could fit too. What do you think of 6 as your dominant type of the head centre? it may explain passiveness.
For variant I would suggest sp/so
Maybe your preference isn't that strong, so it's more difficult to decideWould that be possible that I'm balanced between J and P? I'm really chaotic except for my books and computer...
Which typically comes first for you: work, or play?
Play x)
E 0.9992
F 0.9962
P 0.9722
S 0.6702
N 0.3298
J 0.0278
T 0.0038
I 0.0008